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My guy friend and I have been getting really close this summer. We are both in other relationships which makes things complicated and confusing. He's told me he loves me as a friend and that I'm his other favorite person besides ( not after) gf. Lately we've been fb msging for hours on end, sometimes until after 3 am and we both admit we are falling asleep! He's even been online to say good morning! I feel like we already sleep together since I'm always in bed chatting with him. We often talk really late about everything including school, family probs, how he's bored with his gf (!), religion, music, etc. He sends me videos, pics of him (clothed) and tons of smileys, winky faces, a red heart once and one time a Snoopy kiss but he teased that was for his gf instead.

He makes me crazy bc he jokes about how we talk like we are a couple but that would be ridiculous. What am I supposed to say there? He calls me gurl, honey and woman and Recently we had a fight bc I found out he was talking to gf on the phone while message with me. I know that was dumb of me but I had stayed up late to talk to him. Later he explained that he was fine with me doing other stuff while we talk and he felt special if I take time to stop and talk. He's stayed home from parties to message me and told me he ran past my house at 5 am and wanted to ring the bell, so I seem to be on his mind a lot?
He went camping with gf this w/e and made a point to tell me there would be no sex bc she had her period. Then we talked about pd sex and he asked if I liked it. He's also told me where his condoms are. (FYI?)

Don't judge please or say that he is a bad bf. I am not looking to be his gf. We are going away to college next year so I just want to see where this goes for now.

He asked what I was going to do w/o him all w/e and called himself "your" his name. He has fake broken up with gf 2x this summer but she won't accept it. He msgs me ASAP when he's back w/no word about gf or trip. Help!

My guy friend and I are incredibly intimate. We've been friends for three years but at the end of last term I felt like things changed. He would seek me out several times a day, leave stuff in my locker to have a reason to see me before and after school, find out my schedule so we could spend as much time together as possible, be in the same after school clubs with me, etc. He told me he really likes talking to me and spending time with me.

The catch is that he has a gf of 13 months (she goes to a diff school). Here's where I get confused. A month ago I went to a play at school bc he was working the soundboard. He invited me to sit in the balcony next to him, met me downstairs, walked up with me and then introduced me to GF, who was also doing sound! He never told me she was going to be there, but he claimed he did. Then he says, in front of her, that we are his two favorite people and asks me if I want to sit behind him and whisper sweet nothings in his ear! He had the nerve to complain about how he had to "put up with" her touching his knee while I was there.

We message a lot on FB and talk about everything: family stuff, school, sex, hobbies, and he vents to me about gf a lot. He tells me that he blows up at her, they fight a lot, he "loves her to death but can't shake her" and is bored with her. He found out she had been role playing online with another guy and they were in virtual love and she was having his pretend child. After that he broke up with her and made her cry but they made up. He told me he's only slept with her. He also said that girls at school tried to get him into a 3way but he wasn't attracted to them so he didn't. Guys... WHY is he telling me this stuff? Why, if I am just a friend, do I need to know where he keeps his condoms, what kind they are and where he keeps his lube? He also talks about eating p&@$y
more than seems normal and likes to play songs for me about it... why?

So for my own personal reasons I am waiting until I am married to have sex (this includes oral sex). I understand that most guys don't like this, I understand that this is very uncommon and unrealistic but this is something, for my own reasons I want to do.

I generally do not tell people other than my super close friends (my parents do not even know) because this is a personal choice and not really anyone's business beside my own. But I am not the stupid virgin, I know about sex, and contraception, and STI's and the whole nine yards. I am actually the one to drive my friends to Planned Parenthood or buy them condoms when they are too scared because you know safety first.

To get to the real meet of my question I have been going out with a guy since the beginning of September he is my first boyfriend but I am his fifth girlfriend. He knows that I want to take things kinda slow (we have barely gone to second base over my shirt) and he respects that given the little experience that I have had. What he does not know is that no matter how slow we go we are not having sex (or oral sex).

He is a great guy and he cares and respects me but I still have that fear in the back of my mind that he might break up with me knowing that we will never have sex. I have heard of guys that even though they said they would not date a girl knowing that she was abstinent got to know the girl and then stayed anyone (the situation with my older cousin and her husband). So I hoping that maybe that would be the situation so I want to avoid telling him because maybe he will become more invested in the relationship and build stronger feelings and not want to break up.

Two of my close friends are saying I should tell him because he might break up anyway and it is better to get it over with now, and I should not go out with a guy who can't respect my choices, and I could be keeping him from happiness with someone else.

What should I do should I tell him (even though I never really tell anyone) or should not say anything? And If I do tell how soon should I tell him?