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Explanation: Some black people are easily triggered by fear of Police, control and authority. The fear and rage they feel relates back to traumas in recent history where black people were enslaved, mis treated, controlled, murdered, tortured, sold off, split up, died in fields and lacked freedom and authority to fight back. When they did, they were punished.

History: For decades they have had to fight for their rights to rise above oppression and the reality and memory of it is alive in their hearts and society. Every confrontation, mistreatment, and death video of Police/black person is seen through this lens by those who harbor fear and reinforces the old feelings of being devalued. The result is anger and rage which is now fully engaged to fight back and confront the threat, at all costs. All the efforts by people to stop slavery, kindness, and fairness does not change the perception. Emotional wounds are strong. This is why other races are not as aflame as black people.

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Current Day: This person is serious... do you see that? They will fight to the death because there is no other option in her perception. Massive Trauma is on the horizon if this is not resolved.

In general, the issue is a policing issue that impacts any race, but it impacts black people in a substantial way for the reasons noted above.

How can black people be policed successfully? If you are black... does having black police help reduce the fear?

In early dating, you ideally, see the each other at your best. There's a lot of mystery and fun.

The closer you get spending long weekends together, living together, and married, the more you see that person in different levels of cleanliness... combed hair, washed up, etc.. Some of us hang out in sweat pants, maybe don't wash or wear perfume, makeup, etc..

How important is it to you that the other person be well groomed, smell good, look good, to being intimate and keeping the feelings for intimacy alive?