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I met this dude named John a few months ago and at first it seemed like he was just lusting after to me. Our conversations always turned sexual and he was always being incredibly touchy feely. After some time he's changed a lot though. He makes sure to talk to me everyday, he walks me home, he's always offering to buy/give me things, he invited me to his family's Thanksgiving dinner, he confides in me about important stuff that even his best friends don't know, and we text pretty much everyday. He turned out to be a really nice guy, but he has a lot of red flags. He has ADHD so he can get really hyper, and he struggles to pay attention to some things, and he sometimes doesn't know how to act in social situations. Sometimes it's like he's a little kid. Because he's so childish and a social wreck he only really has two close friends, both of which are really shitty people. One is a guy named Eric that I used to be friends with until he admitted he had a crush on me and I rejected him so he started talking badly about me and always tries to tell John to stop talking to me. Although John always defends me when Eric starts talking badly about me he always excuses and says that Eric is just joking. The other is a girl who has some really bad emotional issues. Also John is kind of dumb. I don't mean it to be insulting, it's just the truth. He thought Mexico was a continent. It's really hard for me to decide what to do because it seems like he cares about me a lot but also he's a mess. He's dumb as a rock, a social wreck, and one out of his two friends hates me.

ohmygod! i am freaking out! PLS GIVE SOME HELPFUL ADVICE IF YOU CAN. why do i get attached to my crushes (NOT boyfriend, BUT A MERE CRUSH) so easily? hi ! i am 19. there was a guy i had a crush on. i met him 2.5 years back, but i still miss him. i still wish i could see him at my home. what is wrong with me?
i am in a girls college, and since the past two years had almost zero interaction with guys. and i am going crazy now. i wish i had some guy friends now, instead of just girls.
is that the reason why i miss him so much? bcoz he was the only one who was a part of my life apart from my school friends.
also in grade 12 i had a crush on this guy. nothing happened between us, but i STILL MISS HIM ALSO. the last interaction i had with him was 2 years back. like seriously what is wrong with me? why on earth am i missing all these guys so much? what should i do?
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