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Guys, Mixed signals from an ex?

Hey guys so my boyfriend and I of 2 years just broke up recently. The reasons for our breakup were not the usual reasons for a break up. There was no loss of attraction or interest really. In fact you could call it one of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

A Practical Guide For How To Get Over Your Breakup And How To Get On With Your Life

My friend, Icyfire101, asked me for some advice about how to get over a girl. I promised him that I would think about it. Icyfire101, my good man, here are my thoughts and suggestions for you and everyone else who ever...

OlderAndWiser

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My ex and I have been talking a lot lately about how much we loved each other and the possibility of working things out?

He tells me he loves me, he can see me filling this missing spot, and how he and his son miss me. After talking for a little bit, he finally told me about this on again off again girlfriend he had been seeing and seemed...

Anonymous

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Will my ex boyfriend contact me or should I reach out first (Details inside)?

We broke up 2 months ago bc I couldn't accept his difference of faith. We had dated four months. The last time we spoke, He told me he adores me and never cared for a woman as much as he does for me and he's even...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What can I do to change her mind here?

I posted this yesterday but i wanted to expand on some things. So I broke up with my ex many months ago, it was a mutual desicion on both of our parts because things fell apart rapidly, some time after we both sat down...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Ex broke up with girlfriend and now crying to me. Should I take him back?

My ex boyfriend, make that FIANCÉ of 5 years broke up with me last year to be with another girl who he claimed was the love of his life. He put me through hell. I was depressed for months after our breakup. I had to start...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Ex's Friends Contacting Me?

Saw girl for 3 months before things ended poorly last month, both of us made mistakes. haven't really talked for a month after our breakup, besides me texting her an apology just so i could feel better last week. When...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I ask my Ex if im moving on? (READ DETAILS)?

She texts me all the time. We went out for 8 months she has a rebound friend. She is loyal but friendzoned me yesterday a little bit when we hung out. It was an easy breakup and was hard on both of us. She talks about us...

Gman77

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

I like a girl who is still not over her ex-boyfriend?

Over the past few months I've developed feelings for a girl I’ve met and been friends with for a year or so. I've never had feelings for a girl like this in a very long time and I would really like to be in a relationship...

Ankind

Xper 4 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Ex gf wants to get back together?

my ex gf called and wanted to know if i still loved her and if i was seeing anyone. i told her im still single and that i still do( its only been two months since breakup). she is currently dating my friend and always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why has ex gf unblocked me on Facebook and Skype after 3 weeks of NC? been broken up for 2 months?

Ok here is a quick back story, we were together for a year and the last five months has been constant arguments, ending with breaking up and then getting back together. I become very jealous and very possessive, i feel...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How does one help the healing process of getting over an ex?

I'm still now and again thinking about my ex. It's been 2 months since our break up and she got together with someone else 4 weeks after out breakup which I think hurt more but helped too. The thing is I don't want her...

JSRWood

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

What is my ex GF thinking?

Long story short. I met a woman at work 2.5 years ago. We work in different departments but shared the same breaks. During our breaks we became close, in fact practically best friends. This led to us dating exclusively....

WFC2015

Xper 4 Age: 53

Relationships

Am I just a glorified boody call now or what?

Anonymous

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OK, so here's the deal. I recently ended my 3 year relationship, and thought I was getting somewhere with someone else. Of course, the new guy wasn't the reason why I left my ex. I was

OK, so here's the deal. I recently ended my 3 year relationship, and thought I was getting somewhere with someone else. Of course, the new guy wasn't the reason why I left my ex. I was cheated on and lied to and I just couldn't get over it. Anyhow, That's not why I'm here. I met this guy at work and of course he chased after me for about a month. Talking to my co-workers about me and eventually talking to me. Everything was great, he was simply an amazing friend and we had tons in common. He's call me to check on me and even gave great advice regarding my breakup. We eventually did get to the point were we admitted we liked each other but weren't sure where we'd be going. Well it all changed drastically. We did sleep together eventually but things were the same. He was still as sweet as ever. He had me meet his friends, I'd pick up his keys from work and we'd hang out and talk all night. I felt like he was turning me into a girlfriend but of course he never introduced me with that title. I didn't want to get to attached so I started acting a little bit different. I simply didn't want him to feel like I "needed" him. I'd rush him off the phone, I wouldn't text him as much, and I got a little mouthy because he called me "babe" via text and such. I know I sound a little crazy but he was really moving quickly for me emotion-wise. After all that, he was still OK. We talked but not as much, but the sex was still amazing. All of a sudden, everything changed. Now we barely talk, not even at work. And we only text when we want to hang out. But thing is we never get through a movie. Things have gotten really predictable and he stops texting back if I tell him I can't come over. He was really amazing a first, at least as a friend. We no longer have conversations, it's more "Hey." "What are you doing?" "Stop by." He constantly cancels plans now. I kind of want to see where this would go but I'm frustrated because it feels like I'm being turned into a glorified booty call. Help!

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Girl's Behavior

Why is this girl so confusing?

To clear things up we are ex's, I dated this girl briefly for the summer of 2013, we were together for about 5 months but it wasn't the best time for us both; we rushed things, we had our own separate issues to be...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Is she done with our relationship or what? Has she lost attraction for me?

Ok so me and my girlfriend or ex had had a lot of turbulence lately in our relationship. I broke it off with her for a week, and then called her to get back together. So I called up, went over to her place, had sex and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

A colleague of mine (masters) and I (24) share feelings for each other but she still doesn't want a relationship, how do I go about this?

So I've liked (x) since we met in college and it's been some time. It originally began as me having an obvious crush on her and eventually she told me she felt the same about me. Things have been going pretty slowly for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Ladies, does this mean anything?

My ex girlfriend, from whom I broke up with last year, keeps showing up to places where I am. We have a mutual friend and I have tried to keep things civil with my ex, always smiling and saying hello. Yet, I have never...

chx000

Xper 6 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

What to make of recent text interactions with my ex girlfriend after she advised me that she has a new boyfriend with is older man?

Recently I have gotten back into contact with my ex girlfriend (who I still want back) I have done this just to maintain a civil relationship with her. However, when she texts me I have not been getting back to her right...

aniceguylost

Xper 4 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Need help! I asked my ex if she was willing to give us another chance what am I best to do while I wait for her decision?

Anonymous

(30-35)

So yesterday I spoke to my ex whom I broke up with last week. She initiated the break up. The break up was through faults of my own as I had been dealing with anxiety and depression

So yesterday I spoke to my ex whom I broke up with last week. She initiated the break up. The break up was through faults of my own as I had been dealing with anxiety and depression nearing our breakup. I done something I've never done before I swallowed my pride and decided I needed to ask this girl if she thinks I was worthy another chance. This was extremely hard for me and put me at a great state of complete vulnerability. I confessed my true feelings to her and how much I loved and cared about her. I never realised until yesterday how much I kept my feelings from her. So I'm glad and she is too that I've done this. Even though I agreed to being friends and she said that if we worked things out between us in the future she would like that I still think I needed to tell her now because I may never if had the chance in the future. While we spoke she gave me mixed emotions most were negative to the idea of getting back together but she listened to what I had to say. Saying she isn't just going to get back with me and take my word, which is fair enough. And how she wish I had said all this earlier while still together and not while it's too late. She didn't really elaborate on what she thought would be a good decision so I didn't want to pressure her and said to have a think about it. She wasn't expecting this from me to say the least. She seems fairly happy now since we haven't been together but I'm not completely convinced, so she might not want us to try again. I want her happy that's the main thing. She had said she still has feelings for me but just isn't sure what to do or say. So in this time of letting her think things over what do I do? I don't want to pressure an answer from her but I don't want to be too distant that she thinks everything I said yesterday was I a lie. Do I leave it be till she decides to contact me or give it a few days and just make friendly conversation not bringing up yesterday talk? Of course unless she decides to. Thanks in advance!

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