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I have been seeing this guy and he fits every profile of my dream guy but we don’t communicate as much. We communicate well in terms of understanding each other and respecting each other. But the problem is we’re both extremely introverts we’re always in our head and we don’t actually communicate much verbally but we have amazing chemistry physically. I have complicated feelings for him because we have only went on three dates I feel like it takes time for me to open up and for him. Our fear is that we will bore each other because we stare at each other eyes, cuddle, and be in each other’s presence with our minds racing but we don’t share what’s on our mind. I have difficulty opening up to anyone because I’m a extreme introvert. I started distancing myself from him because he has complicated feelings for me too, like our feelings aren’t developed. He’s an amazing guy, has similar core values, goals in life and understands me well. Do feelings come right away or do people build it? We’re very inexperienced in dating to say the least. But we believe we should focus on one person at a time and right now I got my eyes on him, but I have confused feelings because I haven’t opened up as much as I could. And as for me it’s hard for me to open up because I was in complete isolation growing up, had distance parents, no friends never built that friendly communication with anyone. And now I’m starting and it’s the hardest thing for me now, to speak what I think.

I mean with the last guy I dated - another very very very attractive woman liked him but he rejected her because he was afraid of getting dumped and cheated on and he thought her standards were too high - he also suspected she might be mentally ill but she was very good looking and fit and rich and smart and young and inexperienced.

I also know guys who go out of their way to hit on ugly girls and avoid the hot ones but I was told by their girlfriends they abused them