I’m 22. I stopped dating fuckboys when I was 19. The last serious relationship I was in made me swear them off for good, no matter how cute they were or how good the sex was. I swore I wouldn’t date again and focus on myself until I met a respectable, charming guy. Luckily I did, unluckily, he was a virgin and had never had a girlfriend before. (Trust me, he was not lying to me to rope me in, he was very “inexperienced”) but I didn’t mind “corrupting” him. We started out as two friends just hanging out and we started sleeping together. To my surprise though, he started to chase me, hard. Good morning texts and long calls before bed. I was loving it. He asked me to be his girlfriend maybe 5 times before I felt I was ready to take on a relationship again. We dated for nearly 8 months and after a rough patch we broke up. I wasn’t surprised. We stayed broken up for about three months, and I honestly liked just being friends with him again. Though I knew he slept with another girl, I wasn’t really that bothered because we were broken up and I too had dated someone else. She was a rebound and when she begged for a relationship, he told her he was getting back with me. She then found all my social media and blocked me on everything. But not him. I thought this was odd and it created a little tension, but I moved on. We’ve been back together for 3 months now and I’ve started to notice- he acts like a fuckboy now. I never saw it before! He uses the same dialogue, doesn’t speak about his emotions, dresses like a fuckboy now, contacts me less, is pushy about sex and asks for nudes all the time- his behavior now reminds me a lot of my exes. I don’t know where this came from, maybe from his fellow guy friends he spent time with during our break? Maybe because he got another notch in his belt? I’m glad he’s more confident now but he just asks so cocky and frigid at times. It’s just very cringey and I don’t know how to handle it.
My boyfriend is starting to act and talk like a fuckboy? Help?
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