What should I do? My boyfriend is starting to hang up on me more and more.

[Anonymous]

so last night we were on the phone and he knows I hate being on speaker phone and still does it. last night he told me I was on speaker phone and said "i hate being on speaker phone" so he said "fine. I'll let you go" and hung up, so I called back and asked why he just hung up. he said that I didn't like being on speaker phone so I hung up. I told him it hurt my feelings and he complained that everything hurts me feelings. I just let it go. I feel like I have to watch everything I say trying not to upset him. when he hangs up I call him back. every time. He has no problem hanging up on me. and after I called him back last night we were just talking and his mother knocked on the door and he was talking to her and I was waiting and then he hung up. I texted him asking why he hung up and he replied "cause :P" so I replied okay and he said "yeah" I told him that "If you didn't want to talk you should have just said so..." he replied saying : well.. I was thinking about and mama came in and I just didn't feel like taking anymore and I got a couple of messages so :P" It really hurt my feelings that he would just take it all as a joke. I told him I was going to bed and I loved him and bye. he replied "why.." I didn't reply. so he called. He's so confusing. any ideas guys? it bothers me that he could do that to me. but then he acts like nothing happened and I shouldn't get upset. what do I do?

[DebiPie]

A couple of things come to my mind: first, don't keep calling or texting him back. He's playing games with you & you are just buying into them. 2nd: you are a little touchy, but I do not blame you at all. The way he's acting, it's making you touchy!

I wouldn't put up with this crap anymore. Tell him that it isn't right for him to invalidate your feelings the way he has been doing by telling you that you get your feelings hurt too much. And that his hanging up is just plain rude.

If he starts that stuff again, talking to others when on the phone with you, then you hang up. If he hangs up on you, do not call him back. If he calls you right back asking "why?" like some idiot, do not play games with him. Ask him, why do you think? If he cannot respect you, you have to make a decision about what you will put up with. Would you let someone else treat you like this? NO!

This may be his way of picking little fights with you for some reason. Ask him why if this keeps happening. Get to the bottom of it. He could be on his way out.

[DebiPie]

Thanks for B.A...I hope it works out for you in the best way possible.

[143nat143]

How old are you? Kinda sounds like you are young and maybe should just let him go. Find someone who will treat you how you want to be treated.

[Darkfairie17]

This guy sounds immature, I would just leave him. Doesn't sound like he really cares about you or even respects you.

[Red_Moon]

If it's happening more and more frequently, it sounds as if something has been bothering him. You might want to ask if something has been bothering him. He'll likely reply with "I'm fine" or something, but I'd still be weary because that's not likely the case.

[Asker]

He'll ask things like do you like someone else and would I tell him if I did. maybe he's just feeling insecure.