What should I do about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a few months and we don’t go on any dates anymore. Recently all I do is go to their house and then back home. There is little to no effort. I understand we all work but every time I ask them if they’re free on the weekend they never reply or I ask we should go here for a date they don’t answer. I don’t know what I should do.

[Guy13]

It sounds like he is taking you for granted. You might ought to mention how you are feeling before it starts to create large amounts of friction and dissatisfaction. Perhaps, you should make two sets of Plans and make clear one of these will be happening and go from there? Do NOT put it all on him...

[ElieBaby]

Talk to him about it…set your expectations. If he's not putting effort now and you only been dating a few months he’s not going to put any effort once married.

[slatyb]

Easy. You should find another boyfriend.