What do I do with my boyfriend?

[Lighthouse29]

He is so stubborn and never does what i want him to do :( if he says something then thats it I cannot argue in that , and I really dont like that

[SueShe]

A relationship is a game of give and take and not only of commanding around.

You have to let him understand that his behavior is not acceptable and that if he wants peace in the relationship, he has to give in half of the time and that what he wants is not always what has to be.

If he does not learn now to share decisions or to accept your point of view, he will never learn it and that is the beginning of the end of any healthy relationship. If what he says goes every single time, then you will never be able to enjoy this relationship as his behavior is toxic. It will not last long before you will have a serious argument about that.

Also, you have to learn to impose your point of view because if you don't, you will have to be submissive to everything he decides. That is not how a relationship works.

[bubblegunnn]

Wait til there's a moment when he finally agree u were right.. and then say "i told u"
This happened a lot to me and my ex lol

[caring__1]

It sounds like both of you are stubborn and selfish... he's just more forceful when it comes to getting his way. Ideal relationships are based on both partners making sure the results are positive and enjoyable to both, not just to one. There's a good likelihood you'll experience the same problem if you find a replacement partner without first addressing your own behavioral patterns. Arguing will never lead to positive results.

[glennos89]

Realise that arguing probably the nr 1 point of irritation is with men.

Ofcourse he should think about you aswell do if he doesn't... ditch the guy he ain't worth it

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well if that's how it always goes then you have a mellow personality and he knows it so he's not going out of his way for you...

[scooogy]

This question might be misplaced here, but how old is he?

[Lighthouse29]

20 years old , one year older than me

[scooogy]

and how old would you assume him to be if you wouldn't know?

[Lighthouse29]

I said he is 20 years older

[Guy13]

Back off then. Csnt force him to chsnge.

[Guy13]

Do you actually think you can change that aspect of his personality in some way ⁉️

[Lighthouse29]

I dont think i can , but i love him so much huh

[Guy13]

What a tough place to be. Perhaps, if you back away and experience others then you will love him less⁉️ Better suited others god your personality?

[Lighthouse29]

He is my first relationship , i was never into relationships till i got to college and yeah

[Anonymous]

Suck his dick and make him suck your pussy and boobies.

[Con29]

Leave him and find someone better

[Anonymous]

Give up and move on honey.

[Luopio27]

Couple therapy?

[Anonymous]

beat him up