What should I make my boyfriend do?

[Anonymous]

I give him head everyday whenever he wants or when I want to I make sure he knows. I give him massages everyday after work. I’m always on his side even though sometimes I don’t agree with the nonsense that comes out of his mouth. I’m very touchy so I play with his hair or ears while we’re just sitting doing nothing. I clean a lot because well he’s the chef and my cooking would not measure up lol. What can I make him do because I feel as if it isn’t fair he doesn’t do anything. He has a high body count while mine is only 2 (him being the second). He said he’s used to girls who just want his money while I’m loving him for everything and he’s the first man I’ve ever had slow good rhythm sex too. (I try my best for him every time we have sex). But all he does is yell at me for little mistakes I make. He doesn’t really do anything if I think about it and I always think about each persons side in a situation. All he does for me is cook which I very much appreciate but nothing after that. I’m the one trying in sex, I’m the one scratching his backing giving him those good tingles. I’m the one giving foot massages. The sex isn’t even a plus because I can just get it somewhere else but I really love him so I don’t want or feel the need to. I just feel like there’s something he should do but I don't know what :/

[Anonymous]

Sure, you should tell him what you want and give him the opportunity to fulfill your needs. But you don’t want to “make” him do anything. You want it to come from the heart and be because he genuinely wants to — the same as you do these things for him without even being asked.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Sounds like you two might be different love languages, assuming he actually loves you.

You need to have a good heart to heart talk, see how he feels about it. He might already feel like he is doing more than you or that things are perfectly okay right now.

Don't try to make him or force him to do anything, that will create resentment. Instead during this talk, express your feelings and concerns. He might come up with some idea's on his own.

[Anonymous]

"... he’s the chef and my cooking would not measure up"

"I feel as if it isn’t fair he doesn’t do anything"

Ummmmm... oh never mind.

[LegendaryIcon]

Lets put it this way. If he were to all the sudden lose all of his money, would you still be with him?

[BarryLiverstone]

Tell him your needs and ask him to meet those needs

[Wise4myage]

Stop being a pushover for starters and have a discussion about whats bothering you.

[Wonderer12]

Stop doing some of those things and see how he reacts. A relationship shouldn't be 1 sided

[noohair]

Sounds like he has you hooked.

[Zlantur2]

He is a jerk then. He should appreciate you more

[Yourman19]

Sounds like you need a new man..

[Anonymous]

Make him swallow his cum.

[Anonymous]

Move on. You need a better guy