About my boyfriend?

[Natashamills519]

We have been together for 3 years and engaged 6 months it was all good then all of a sudden his ex messaged him ever since then he has been distant with me no phone or text me nothing for him at all he comes home to me every night it’s that bad that he has to leave the house cuz he can’t stand being around me just now but my brain thinks there is something going on he says they are just friends but he wants show me any of the messages at I am scared of losing him right now he don’t want to come with me anywhere at all and we keep fighting all the just don’t no what to do anymore please help me

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I no tell me about it how can I accept it if he not showing me the messages like I can give you one she got a new house sent him pics off it and said it’s big right but your not going to be living here

[Avicenna]

Take a step back and think about how you can change the trajectory of this situation

[Iron_Man]

You guys need a mediator go to a family counselor negotiate and make deals and commit to it. He needs to show you the messages.

[serious_miss419]

Invite her over and you all have a dinner. Should not be an issue right?

[Natashamills519]

Can’t do that she is meant to be crazy she can be all nice then one min she can twist things things around

[serious_miss419]

Then she’s got to go or you do!

[hbg84]

Run he be banging his ex

[Natashamills519]

He not been near is ex

[In_Trance]

Talk to him about it

[Natashamills519]

I have tried we just end up fighting about it he says there nothing going on but he does right in front of me as well he keeps talking about her all the time to me this about her and that about her

[In_Trance]

So you either accept this or move on. This is a huge red flag