Boyfriend problem?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys i wanna ask u something i think my boyfriend ignored me ok?
He said he doesn’t have his phone and then he used his mobile and doesn’t send message to me I don't know why and then i said to him if u don’t want that relationship w me so u can say it it’s very normal and he doesn’t say anything he tell me I will call u tomorrow morning and I call him he doesn’t answer me and just seen my massage so i don’t know what to do please tell me what does he want from my I think maybe he has problem or he doesn’t want me I don't know

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that is so wack of your boyfriend to be ignoring you like that! Red flags all over. A few things could be up:

- He met someone else and is being shady tryna juggle you both. Lame!

- He's going through something personal but too immature to communicate properly. Boys, I tell ya.

- Lost feelings but being a 🤡 about breaking it off instead of being honest. Weak sauce.

- Trying to play games and make you chase after him for attention. Toxic behavior!

Whatever's really going on, his actions are telling you he isn't reliable boyfriend material right now. I'd say hit him with an ultimatum - have a real talk about where you's at, or you're dipping out.

Don't let some boy mess with your feelings, sis! You deserve way better than people who ignore you and flake. Stand up for yourself - if he can't step up, know your worth and move on to bigger and better things without him. You got this!

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

You explanation suggests you're fragile and insecure. You need to get a grip and carry yourself with a little more dignity. Being clingy and desperate for attention isn't attractive, it will get you dumped.

[Anonymous]

He’s not prioritizing you in his life let alone being a good boyfriend. He probably wants you to break up with him first so he won’t have to feel guilty.

[Asker]

I think yes but if he want that he can just do that I don’t

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you want a man you have to chase though? Who’s not putting in the bare minimum effort?

[Asker]

No no bro I don’t want him but i want him to breakup w me not me

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh okay, I’m not sure he will do it first. I had an ex like that and I was disappointed to be the one that ended it since that’s what he wanted but I was only doing it for me.

[Asker]

At least his loss not mine i think because im pretty rich everything

[Opinion Owner]

Then it’s definitely his loss!

[Asker]

Yeh gurll his loss

[EmmaMary]

Why waste your time with such a lowlife?

[Asker]

I don't know what to do

[EmmaMary]

Just two words... Dump Him.

[Asker]

Girl i rlly fuckin love him but i think i lose interest rn

[Billlewis]

Unless you're living together or financially intertwined in some other manner, it should be fairly easy to cut ties with him and, as Ann Landers used to say, 'Seek true love elsewhere'

[Asker]

Ok but i want to know why he does that to me i do nothing wrong to him i care about him but I don't know why why he does that to me im gonna lose my mind because i said it’s the last time

[EmmaMary]

@lina12

In that case you need to arrange a time and date, sit down and literally thrash it out with him... And make it very clear this is one chance and one chance only.

[Asker]

I told him we need to see each other and make it work or not i don’t know if he wants to come or not

[EmmaMary]

Don't give him any choice... Tell him he either turns up or he's history.

[Asker]

Ok i would what if he doesn’t come?

[EmmaMary]

Stick to your guns and Dump Him... Sorry.

[Asker]

I’m died 😂
Thank u for ur advice i will do it u mist sure

[EmmaMary]

@lina12

No one, especially you, deserves to be continually strung along by a pathetic lowlife.

Please try to be strong and assertive, and don't give in to any excuses he might try on you.

[Asker]

Thank u rlly rlly for ur talkin i rlly need it

[EmmaMary]

@lina12

You're so very, very welcome indeed.

Wishing you all the luck and good fortune you so richly deserve. x

[Asker]

Thank you 💌

[lightbulb27]

he's avoidant. why? meet in person at therapist and talk...

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

[Gent207-2]

Just walk away

[Asker]

I do broo

[Gent207-2]

@lina12
Not fast enough or without looking back.
Block him on every app
Avoid him in real life