Boyfriend problems?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been so distant lately, hasn’t wanted me to really be affectionate with him, changed his passcode on his phone so I couldn’t even get in it, removed my fingerprint from it, honestly feels like he’s hiding stuff from me but I’m not sure anymore what do you think?

[Bee-Hatch]

What the actual fuck? You got him to give you the pass code and have your fingerprints stored in his phone?
His phone? Not yours - his.
It sounds like you don't see as he's entitled to privacy or respect. And you might be a bit of a bunny boiler in the making.
This kind of shit is why women get a bad name.

[bubblegunnn]

Did u ask him yet why the password changed?
Trust ur gut sis if u feel "oh this is not how my man behave" or u found it strange, then yes he deffo hide something and he doesn't want u to know it.

[roy_ricky09]

Seriously. Why would you need the password to his phone? That is no way to judge someone or assume things. Don't people talk anymore. No wonder!!!

[Asker]

For your information I only get on his phone to take pictures so he had pics of me, you don’t like it go suck it :)

[nachosaresexy]

Anything been changing in his life lately, like school, work, family stuff, friends?

[Asker]

A couple of family things, but that’s about it and he was okay for a while but now he’s just different

[nachosaresexy]

he sounds distracted. how long y'all been together?

[Asker]

A year and 3 months

[nachosaresexy]

Hard to say what exactly but seems like something in his personal life is distracting him... and also possible that the relationship has hit a bit of a 'wall'. Over a year together, he might be starting to question the long-term aspect, what he wants in life, stuff like that.

Probably a dumb question but have you tried talking to him about it? Meaning, figuring out a delicate way to bring up the fact you feel like he's acting different and it's making you confused & frustrated?

[Asker]

I’ve tried but he doesn’t wanna talk

[Anonymous]

He is hiding something from you would be my guess.

[Anonymous]

He is either hiding things from you or something could be going on in his life whilst you’re not around. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Mgtow1990]

Pure sign of hiding stuff