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I’m at the wits end with my boyfriend of almost two years! What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some change. I noticed when we hit the year mark he stopped putting in effort or prioritizing our relationship. One time, a whole month went by without us seeing each other, even though we don’t live that far apart. He kept saying he was “busy.” He works and has several side gigs and was in school so I understood. However, once he graduated school and had less of a load, nothing changed. I have gone to him several times to communicate how I feel and each time he says he will change, but only changes for a week and go back to the same old habits. I tried breaking up with him once and he cried/ begged I take him back, which I did.
Again, nothing has changed. He continues to do things that he knows gets me upset. He will disappear for a day or two then come back like nothing happen/ with no good explanation. I understand people need their me time but all I’m asking is to just send one text saying babe I’m having a bad day just turning off my phone for a while but he can’t even do that. When I bring it up, all he says is okay then does it all over again. He did that recently and normally I would text/call him but I’m so at my wits end that I didn’t even respond back when he did text me after one of his ghosting trips. It’s been a whole week since we talked.

I’m just so tired of communicating with him because nothing comes of it so for now I’m just enjoying the silence and contemplating what I should do. I have given him ample chances to show that he cares or to put effort in, but I feel like I’m the one who is carrying the whole relationship. What should I do guys?
I’m at the wits end with my boyfriend of almost two years! What should I do?
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