Does anyone else find it offputting when a woman has children already?

[Anonymous]

Unless her husband died, I want to make a life with someone who hasn't already made one with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Yes that's red flag. Because unless her husband died she chose very poorly. Didn't think, and had kids with a very poor selection that didn't have enough character to stick around and finish what he started. Or, she was a nightmare and drove him away. Either way, she's proven her inability to keep, satisfy a man, make good decisions. In short women need to understand that single mother are very consistent tell. They are dubious risks.

I'm not saying all women with children are trash. I'm simply saying no guy worth his salt chooses one. she represents an unnecessary risk. Women with need to understand you're about as much of a prize to a man as a homeless guy is to a woman. A homeless would have to work his ass off to earn any woman. Well the same goes for a single mom.

Ladies. The best thing you can do is not end up a single mom. But should you find yourself in that predicament. Own your situation. Own the part YOU played in ending up in your predicament. And if you want to date again, and this time find a quality man. Know you're going to have to put forth extra effort now as you are NOT the quality men's first choice anymore.

Just trying to help.

[Berethor]

Single moms tend to be on the bottom of the market value, they bring too much baggage.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating through the heart's desires, aren’t we? Wanting to carve out a unique love story that starts off unencumbered is totally natural. But let's sprinkle some perspective into the mix! People come with histories - stories that shape and define them. When it comes to someone with children, you’re looking at a package deal of love, challenges, and bedtime stories. 📚💕 Sure, it’s about sharing chapters yet untold, but also about appreciating the ones already written. It's a journey, one that offers the richness of a blended family experience. Think of it as a bonus level in the game of love, where the rewards could be unexpectedly wonderful! Remember, every love story is unique, and sometimes the most captivating tales are those with a few plot twists. 😉

[msc545]

I don't find it to be a barrier at all. I absolutely love children and since I don't have any of my own, it's very nice to have the benefit of being able to spend time with children that belong to somebody else.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. What will you think when she’s married to you with a child?

[CriticalCatDad]

It should be a turn off for all men

[war_daddy]

most sane guys do

[In_Trance]

No, not at all