Does anyone else find it off putting if a woman has children already?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, unless her husband has died, I’d feel extremely awkward about that.

[fonduegirl]

I find it off putting in both genders. Because I personally don't desire parenthood, and I'm not fit for the step parent role either. I'd pass the chance of dating them because it's my problem, not theirs.

I don't think people should stay in a relationship just for the sake of kids. Matters change, feelings fade, important thing is children are in contact with both parents.

[Fireguy17]

No, it's just part of who she is.
The only issue would be if there is a constant fight, going to court endlessly over every little thing.

[Cupio]

Not off-putting, but as I don't want children myself, I wouldn't engage in a committed relationship with her.

[jahaims]

As in for a potential partner? Yeah it is off-putting

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[In_Trance]

not really