My opinion is that if you think there aren't men that won't date mothers who have children, then you either live under a rock (I know many, and my biological father is someone who dated a woman who already had a child only to conceive me with a said woman later) or that you have personal issues that cause you to place an unnecessarily heavy value on whether or not a woman has had children before she met you.
Which... is fine. You don't have to like women who have had children before you. But you aren't the authority to gets to decide that she is now worthless because you, personally, have a particular distaste for them by oddly shaming them for not meeting your personal, moral and sexual standards.
by the way... I'm a single, non-childbearing female. For context.
What the fuck Are you talking about? Undatable? YOU Are undatable for thinking this way. It may is more difficult because that is more responsability, but If you find a man that just loves Children/Kids or even has his own Kids, or just Really loves that Woman that is NOT going to be a Problem. I Think a Single man would want To date a Single Mother because Woman Are just amazing, Watch how a Single Mother Works, Cleans her house up and looks After a Child and even looks bomb. My Parents divorced when I was just 5 Years old and when I was 8 My Mother found Love Again in a Single Man. After 12 Years they Are still happily married.
My end goal with dating is to have a family with the woman I'm dating. I want my own bio logical children, not someone else's.
But that's just me and that shouldn't make me shallow or bad.
I wouldn't say it would make a woman undateable, but it sure will somewhat lessen the options of possible partners then before having a child.
I mean hate me, but that's just how it is.
Maybe that makes them more tolerant towards a big baby like me 😂
I don't know, but I don't think it makes them undateable. Plus I keep hearing that single guys with kids is attractive.
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Thats not true but it does increase the chancea of no one wanting to date you. I wold date a guy with a kid as long as he had only one kid, age 2-5, and wanted more kids. But at the same time, i know the kid will be his top priority which i respect. But i wasn't expecting to come in being 2nd already. So its best i marry someone and then we mutually agree to make the kid our top priority when it comes into the world
There's single dad's out there dating too... i wouldn't date one but it's not limited to females.
Doesn’t make you unsayable unless the dude you’re going after is shallow 🤷♀️
There are some guys who date single moms so that’s not true in every case. I think it makes their dating lives more difficult but it doesn’t kill their chances entirely.
They just don’t care. They think you are so desperate to get the monkey you’ll put up with anything.
Some men dont mind single mothers
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