Men, how would you feel if your girlfriend said she wasn’t satisfied sexually?

[JanetMaree]

I told my ex this an a argument he didn’t take that too well!

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

No wonder, your in an argument and you attack his sexual abilities? Based on your response, you understand a good number of women have physical issues that can interfere with orgasming?

If you haven't gotten checked out, consider it before slapping some poor sap dating you.

That being said, if a girl I am dating isn't being satisfied, I expect her to be honest and we can go our separate ways. It could be as simple as not being sexual compatible. Point is, you do NOT use that as a verbal weapon against either partner.

[Mr_twoface]

I would naturally have a mix of emotions, probably be sad initially. I would thereafter approach the situation with empathy, open-mindedness, and a willingness to address the concerns and find ways to satisfy her needs. One can’t and shouldn’t take it too personal or become defensive, as it's crucial to communicate openly and constructively. This conversation can be an opportunity to deepen once understanding of each other's needs and desires, and to work together to improve our sexual connection.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Opening up about sexual dissatisfaction can hit a nerve, but it's all about the approach. Imagine serving a dish with love, only for someone to say it's lacki... ng spice! It can feel personal. The key is to turn the conversation into a collaborative quest—exploring each other's desires and dislikes creates a steamy recipe for satisfaction. Approach it with curiosity and an open heart. It's not about pointing fingers but unlocking a treasure chest of pleasures yet discovered. Engaging in such heart-to-hearts can actually bring you closer, transforming sparks into fireworks! Keep the communication lines spicy and alive; it's all about growing together in every sense of the word. 🌶️💫

[Finchie40]

It kills his ego , and makes him feel like he isn’t good enough for you? , most guys’ take those remarks seriously and to the heart because it kills his ego, I know guys’ that cheated on their girlfriends’ because she said shit like that to him. so you are probably best to apologize to him and and make it up to him if you don’t want to lose him.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's incumbent on her to tell/show me what she likes. If she just expects me to use trial and error on the thousands of things I could do in hopes that I find what you like then you're probably too high maintenance in expecting me to read minds or too repressed to feel comfortable having that conversation and we just aren't going to be compatible in that arena anyway.

[normalice]

A little annoyed but at my age I understand it as simply the wrong approach to fixing an issue that may not even have anything to do with me. Crippling anxiety, for example, can make a woman impossible to please. and there wouldn't be a lot I could do about it other than tell her her anxieties are justified, given the general state of things, which likely wouldn't help.

[GoodEnoughThen]

I didn't get the se se OP was using her words as a weapon. Seems she is sharing a legitimate complaint and hopes her SO can respond maturely and they can talk about it and move forward. If they work on improving their sex'l relationship that is ultimately good for him too.

[Lynx122]

Instead of addressing the problem genuinely and working it out together you waited and then threw it in his face in a fight. You have some issues to work on. That's probably why he's your ex now.

[JanetMaree]

Definitely not ! He’s abused me and manipulated me ! I broke up with him! Don’t speak on a relationship you don’t know. You look real foolish right now smh

[Lynx122]

You chose him from the start so that you could make it his fault when things didn't work out. I don't think I'm looking foolish.

[JanetMaree]

They makes zero sense you idiot I was victim of domestic violence how the hell would I have known this about him? I clearly didn’t know until I got involved please shut up

[Nerdvana]

Not arguing - I would appreciate her communicating her needs to me. And then ask her what can I do to satisfied her? I want to make her happy.

During an argument - I would see it as you are trying to really hurt my feelings and I would lose my shit and not take it well.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I suppose the equivalent would be, telling a woman, I want kids, just not with you because I think you'd be a terrible mother.

Neither are that great to hear!

[hahahmm]

Like she's one of the women who blames everybody but herself for her personal issues. There's a long history of women blaming men for 100% of problems the woman caused herself.

[JacobJordan]

Would depend on how it was said when it was said and why it was said. Along with why was it not brought up sooner

[worldscolide]

I would damn sure figure out the problem. My wife thank God would never say that to me though.. Especially since she usually has 10 orgasms to my one every time we have sex.

[CriticalCatDad]

might be because I'm asexual. She'll just cheat on me like the others did though. It's only a matter of time

[LiamJHayden]

Wonder why she didn't have multiple Oscars and Emmy Awards for being such a good actress as to fake that many orgasms so convincingly, down to the flushed chest.

[soe11]

• I will give her choice.
• If she want to leave me, will let her go with peace.

[Phoenix98]

I'd find out why she wasn't satisfied and what would need to be done to fix it.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'd know where the door was 🚪. Glenn Quagmire lol 😂😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

@JanetMaree I've always liked the name Glen or Glenn - very tradesman like working class Leftie lol 🔧🛠️

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'd dump the woman lol politely ♀️

[Unit1]

Like with anything else in life it simply means I must get good and she'll help me at it.

[ravagesavage]

I'd throw her to the curb and find another girl or cheat behind her back.

[Luckycharms12]

Never happened. But if it did id see it as personal challenge and make her orgasm right then and there. Then ask how about now 😂

[nik0102]

in what degree do you mean "not satisfied" ?

[JanetMaree]

Don’t Orgasm

[nik0102]

we have been through very similar stuff with my ex. for how long you dont climax?

[JanetMaree]

I haven’t once , he claims it takes him a while to orgasm I don’t know if he was saying that out of anger because I may have hurt his feelings

[nik0102]

how long have you been together?

[nik0102]

@JanetMaree in a 3 year relationship I couldn't make her cum either. At some point we had an open relationship. At that point sex between us reduced to once a week, but we used to cuddle and watch movies together. She got some satisfaction from her friends with benefits. But that period didn't last too long because it was the cause of other issues

[Lessthanaveragr]

Oh well, she cheats any way, so why add insult to injury