Men, how would you feel if your girlfriend said she wasn’t satisfied sexually?

Question

I told my ex this an a argument he didn’t take that too well!

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Accepted Answer

No wonder, your in an argument and you attack his sexual abilities? Based on your response, you understand a good number of women have physical issues that can interfere with orgasming?

If you haven't gotten checked out, consider it before slapping some poor sap dating you.

That being said, if a girl I am dating isn't being satisfied, I expect her to be honest and we can go our separate ways. It could be as simple as not being sexual compatible. Point is, you do NOT use that as a verbal weapon against either partner.

Mr_twoface · Accepted Answer

I would naturally have a mix of emotions, probably be sad initially. I would thereafter approach the situation with empathy, open-mindedness, and a willingness to address the concerns and find ways to satisfy her needs. One can’t and shouldn’t take it too personal or become defensive, as it's crucial to communicate openly and constructively. This conversation can be an opportunity to deepen once understanding of each other's needs and desires, and to work together to improve our sexual connection.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Opening up about sexual dissatisfaction can hit a nerve, but it's all about the approach. Imagine serving a dish with love, only for someone to say it's lacki... ng spice! It can feel personal. The key is to turn the conversation into a collaborative quest—exploring each other's desires and dislikes creates a steamy recipe for satisfaction. Approach it with curiosity and an open heart. It's not about pointing fingers but unlocking a treasure chest of pleasures yet discovered. Engaging in such heart-to-hearts can actually bring you closer, transforming sparks into fireworks! Keep the communication lines spicy and alive; it's all about growing together in every sense of the word. 🌶️💫

Finchie40 · Answer

It kills his ego , and makes him feel like he isn’t good enough for you? , most guys’ take those remarks seriously and to the heart because it kills his ego, I know guys’ that cheated on their girlfriends’ because she said shit like that to him. so you are probably best to apologize to him and and make it up to him if you don’t want to lose him.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

It's incumbent on her to tell/show me what she likes. If she just expects me to use trial and error on the thousands of things I could do in hopes that I find what you like then you're probably too high maintenance in expecting me to read minds or too repressed to feel comfortable having that conversation and we just aren't going to be compatible in that arena anyway.

normalice · Answer

A little annoyed but at my age I understand it as simply the wrong approach to fixing an issue that may not even have anything to do with me. Crippling anxiety, for example, can make a woman impossible to please. and there wouldn't be a lot I could do about it other than tell her her anxieties are justified, given the general state of things, which likely wouldn't help.

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

I didn't get the se se OP was using her words as a weapon. Seems she is sharing a legitimate complaint and hopes her SO can respond maturely and they can talk about it and move forward. If they work on improving their sex'l relationship that is ultimately good for him too.

Lynx122 · Answer

Instead of addressing the problem genuinely and working it out together you waited and then threw it in his face in a fight. You have some issues to work on. That's probably why he's your ex now.

Nerdvana · Answer

Not arguing - I would appreciate her communicating her needs to me. And then ask her what can I do to satisfied her? I want to make her happy.

During an argument - I would see it as you are trying to really hurt my feelings and I would lose my shit and not take it well.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I suppose the equivalent would be, telling a woman, I want kids, just not with you because I think you'd be a terrible mother. Neither are that great to hear!

hahahmm · Answer

Like she's one of the women who blames everybody but herself for her personal issues. There's a long history of women blaming men for 100% of problems the woman caused herself.

MicahRaine · Answer

I'd thank her for telling me and ask her how I can do more to satisfy her

worldscolide · Answer

I would damn sure figure out the problem. My wife thank God would never say that to me though.. Especially since she usually has 10 orgasms to my one every time we have sex.

JacobJordan · Answer

Would depend on how it was said when it was said and why it was said. Along with why was it not brought up sooner

CriticalCatDad · Answer

might be because I'm asexual. She'll just cheat on me like the others did though. It's only a matter of time

LiamJHayden · Answer

Wonder why she didn't have multiple Oscars and Emmy Awards for being such a good actress as to fake that many orgasms so convincingly, down to the flushed chest.

soe11 · Answer

I will give her choice. If she want to leave me, will let her go with peace.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I'd know where the door was 🚪. Glenn Quagmire lol 😂😆

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'd find out why she wasn't satisfied and what would need to be done to fix it.

nik0102 · Answer

in what degree do you mean "not satisfied" ?

Unit1 · Answer

Like with anything else in life it simply means I must get good and she'll help me at it.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Never happened. But if it did id see it as personal challenge and make her orgasm right then and there. Then ask how about now 😂

Lessthanaveragr · Answer

Oh well, she cheats any way, so why add insult to injury

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Your need to communicate better what what you want, and not while arguing.

Anonymous · Answer

I would feel like a failure and a disappointment, it's a mans job to satisfy his woman in bed, and if he can't do that then he is less of a man, shame.

Anonymous · Answer

I would well I guess we're even then. Because I'm not satisfied enough emotionally.

MasterKS · Answer

Well done for your honesty and straight forward nature.

In_Trance · Answer

If you're not satisfied, that's on you. You make yourself look like a fool when you say something like this

Kaneki05 · Answer

Curious as to why and try solve it?

exitseven · Answer

I would try harder.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

That's the story of my life. LOL

jahaims · Answer

We would communicate and figure out what she likes

nudeNhorny · Answer

I would try to work something out

Iron_Man · Answer

I wouldn’t like it

browndog · Answer

I aim to pleasure my love with multipule orgasims

Anonymous · Answer

I would ask her how we can change that

SotiCoto · Answer

Try harder.

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