Men, how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend masturbated to the thought of someone else?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I dont think I would care. Love and sex are two different things. As long as she does not insult me by cheating on me, I won't be worried about that. Its like worrying when your girlfriend buys a dildo. All dildos are generally based on some model, so should I be concerned for that?

And me and my girl generally talk about these things. Who she finds attractive and whom I find. Its all in good spirit and we just joke with each other like who we can never get that person. This is only sexually. Emotionally, she loves me.

[Ripper_E]

I would not like that. I get that she'll find other men attractive, it's unavoidable. I would as well, though with me it's more like "She's attractive. Okay, moving on."
There is a difference between her pleasing herself and maybe bringing herself to orgasm to the though of another man. Like I'm right there, but instead of physically doing something with me, you're thinking about another man.

[Toolbagg]

Probably pretty indifferent. I mean, don't we all?

And on the other hand, why would I masturbate to the thought of someone I can have sex with?

[Asker]

The thought of some other guy, not you...

[Toolbagg]

That's the scenario I addressed

[Asker]

"And on the other hand, why would I masturbate to the thought of someone I can have sex with?"

No you weren't.

[Toolbagg]

In other words: "Why wouldn't I think of someone else?"

[Asker]

Okay then.

[Loving_Husband]

I actually enjoy it! Love watching my wife masturbate as she's telling me what she's thinking and who's she's thinking about!

[Anonymous]

That wouldn't be a surprise. Most women do.