Guys, if a woman you're seriously interested in says it seems you're just sexting her & not necessarily respecting her in other ways how do you feel?

[Anonymous]

I like the guy, a lot. I see a potential future with him.

But 😞 I ask him a simple request and 3 times he hasn't done it. It's a simple thing, he's acknowledged he knows he's in the wrong and yet keeps doing it (not responding to a text)

But, comically, he has no issues sexting and whatever else along those lines

[Lionman95]

I would assume that a guy that sexts with a woman but doesn´t seem to respect her in other ways is either not interested or not ready for a relationship. He might say he´s interested in her but by being ok with sexting and not showing much interest in her in other regards he shows to me that his interest is focused on sex. From a woman´s perspective I think she has to make the decision to either stick with him be ok that his interest is mainly sexual or move on and find a guy who´s not that much focused on to sex.

[BadApple69]

Your question makes it sound like you know without a doubt that he is seriously interested in you… how do you know that?
Let’s say that he is seriously interested. Then he has his priorities screwed up. He needs to take care of you the person before he thinks about you as the sex object.
But… there is the possibility that he is using you as a sex object only. Only he knows for sure. In this case (or if you want to test this) stop sexting. Tell him “no, I just feel like talking today” and see what his response is.
He needs to be willing to talk with you before anything else.


Good luck!