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Feeling numb lately, but don't want to give up on him?

I've been dating him, more or less, for over a year. We took 6 months off while he recovered from an ex. They dated 4 years, she dumped him, he met me, sparks flew, we moved too fast. Since we got back together in April,...
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Would you bother to have a 2nd date if you got on but felt no chemistry?

So you go on a date with someone and you get on well, but you don't feel any spark or that connected and the attraction isn't all that strong? (you don't find them unattractive but you don't really feel it) would you...
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So you go on a date with someone and you get on well, but you don't feel any spark or that connected and the attraction isn't all that strong? (you don't find them unattractive but you Show More
Yes, personally i'd still want to go on a 2nd date.
No, if the vibe doesn't feel right i wouldn't bother.
I'd go on one more date, and if i still feel the same way end it there.
I don't know what a spark or chemistry is.
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ARGUMENT FREE ZONE: Is there a race to which you are not attracted and, if so, is it because of conscious beliefs that you have about that race?

A racist is a person who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. Prejudice is a preconceived opinion that is not based on...
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A racist is a person who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. Prejudice is a Show More
I am attracted only to members of my own race because of conscious beliefs about race
I am attracted only to members of my own race but it is not a conscious decision motivated by beliefs about race
I am attracted only to members of a race other than my own because of conscious beliefs about race
I am attracted only to members of a race other than my own but it is not a conscious decision motivated by beliefs about race
I am attracted to members of my own race and another race, but there is one race to which I am NOT attracted because of conscious beliefs about race
I am attracted to members of my own race and another race; there is one race to which I am NOT attracted but it is not a conscious decision motivated by beliefs about race
I am attracted to all races, including my own race
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I'm in a love triangle for the first time in my life with a new guy and a guy that I think I'm in love with. Any advice would help. What to do?

So I have been seeing this guy off & on since November 2016. We've been friends since March 2016 and have a deep connection. I've liked him since around February 2017 and have been wanting more from him. He admitted to me...
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How to move on from perfection?

Imagine this, you've talked to 1000s of people, dated a decent amount with no luck and finally after years of searching you meet the perfect person, looks wise personality wise, etc etc, you talk online for 3 months and...
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The Other Side of Females

I decided to write this myTake because i never ready anything similar and at the same time i see plenty of girls believing that they're actually outsmarting everyone (men and women included) and keep going down that path...
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Am I asking for too much?

Someone I’m talking to once told me that they can’t live up to the level I’m looking for. I’m kinda confused on what they mean by it considering all I want is for them to be committed to me (only) and consistently try to...
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Great second date all over me, now cold. What?

Had a great second date with a girl, loads of flirting, chatting and laughs. She clung onto my arm as we walked both of us enjoying ourselves. We kissed for ages and she didn't want me to stop because she said I was...
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Would a girl/woman go all the way?

Some facts: She and I got to know each other via a mutual friend. The day after we were already chatting, since we both have busy lives. I immediately suggested going out, but she didn't go into this. Our mutual friend...
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Should I tell her she's a manipulative... ?

Flirting Some facts: a year ago I got to know a women via a mutual friend. Pretty soon we started chatting cuz we both have a busy life. I immediately suggested going out, but she didn't go into this. Our mutual friend...
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Is this a promising sign?

Some facts: a year ago I got to know a women via a mutual friend. Pretty soon we started chatting cuz we both have a busy life. I immediately suggested going out, but she didn't go into this. Our mutual friend told me I...
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Creepy guy, what should I do?

I met this guy on tinder (first time using the app) and so a few days ago we met up at a bar. We talked for about an hour and while he seemed like a nice guy, I didn't feel any spark or chemistry between us. I was honesty...
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Girls, Can I change her mind or is this a lost cause?

She and I met through a mutual friend. We texted for a couple of weeks and then had a date, but she said there was no spark. It took a while for us to text again, but we did occasionally. Lately however, after having seen...
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Why would a woman who told you she will meet you act very enthusiastic over text for a couple of days and then be more reserved and less enthusiastic?

She was really enthusiastic the last week over text and told me she was going to come over and I was really surprised because one year ago we had a date and then she said there was no spark. Lately however we have started...
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When after a rejection do you know you have to try again?

Although she rejected me after a first date (no spark), she keeps on texting me regularly. A mutual friend told me she really likes texting me. Lately though, she seems very enthusiastic in her texts, also taking...
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Time to decide?

I had a crush on this girl for a good amount of time. We occasionally had some good meet ups in terms of coffee and movies for example. Lately I've heard information from her friends that she has found out that she is...
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When guys tell you about their past dates?

There is this guy I talk to and we flirt sometimes. I use to really like/crush on him and he seemed interested in me also. But since we have very conflicting schedules that spark we had dimmed. Not long ago he told me...
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Been dating a girl for about two months and realized this isn't it for me. But, she in a verys tressful situation right now, what should I do?

These two months we dated went by very fast, and we also moved very fast while dating. It got intimite very soon, which may not have been the smartest of ideas. It all appeared to be going great, but I couldn't shake the...
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First date went well, but haven't heard back about a second?

I had a date on Friday that I think went well. I initated this first date and organised the time/place. It started with just no pressure drinks which ended up turning into dinner. We had what I thought was great...
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Women, what are some ideas for being romantic that cost little or no money?

Much is made of this mythical species called "the gold digger" but my experience with most women is that we also work hard for our money and we can appreciate not having it to spend on expensive luxuries. What are...
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