Search Results: personality preferences

When I say preference I don't mean safety standards , which are standards you keep to protect you. E. g. not abusive etc.

Preference to me means something you would want but if everything else was right you could over look it.

For example, if a woman was kind, had a great personality, was fair and trustworthy, I feel people could overlook if see was a bit "large".

If a man ticked all the boxes but height, I feel people should over look it.

The comprises should mainly be on visual preferences. I do see women compromising but it often comes back to hurt them as they end up with an abusive partner.

This is why standards like not abusive and kind should be withstanded but preferences like height , weight and looks which don't themselves indicate a bad relationship should be a bit more flexible.

Please assume (if you wish), that other factors that might affect your choice, such as personality, religion (or lack thereof), etc. meet your general preferences.

Thanks in advance for your opinions.

I've noticed that I tend to gravitate towards white girls more than black girls despite being, not only black, but African. I personally attribute my preference to 2 things:

1. Being from Africa, I'm very familiar with black women and their flaws. Although they'll try and tell you that the agressive black woman stereotype isn't true, it very much is. I think that I've just grown tired of their personalities.

2. Media. I live in Canada, so obviously I'm constantly being showered by Canadian media promoting the Canadian idea of beauty.

I have noticed a trend the girls that are attracted to me. They look somewhat similar or they have similar personalities (fair skin, blue/green eyes, brunette, cute and independent, etc.). What do you think? It could just be my default preference. Is it because we are genetically predisposed to attract certain types of people? Are we taught this based on our interaction with certain people? Is it by choice or a preference of ours? Or, here's a kicker for you - do we actually have power in choosing who to attract by creating those moments and attractive qualities for that person?

Hi Girls! what must be the minimal height that you search for your opposite sex?

Please dont say personality is important,

Think that you do not know the guy or you just see him in streets