Girls can’t help who they’re sexually attracted to in a relationship. Physical attraction is just as important as personality. You can’t force someone to be attracted to someone they’re not or to date them. Women, as well as men have their own set of preferences and there is nothing wrong with that.
Why, then, do I constantly see hateful comments from short guys on YouTube, social media, or anywhere in general calling women “shallow” “bitches” “cunts” and other names for a PREFERENCE. Please explain.
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To those answering “because no one wants to be rejected on something they can’t control.” Well, of course they don’t. But you’re in the real world, not everything is going to go your way. People are entitled to date and reject whomever they choose.
Why are short men so offended girls have a preference for taller guys?
They just choose the bluffing strategy and hope it works by creating an illusion of sexual rights that might work with low iq girls that are eager to please and help a sad victim of social imbalance. Don't fall for it.
Because they're short. This leads to many insecurities, also having a short penis adds to it quite a lot. All of this builds up a lot of tension which turns them into vicious little creatures.
@betaTester all y'all little fellas have this subconcious need to overcompensate, it turns you to little assholes. Its like small dogs, the smallest bark the loudest but when shit hits the fan they're quite useless, they know it, you know it. Just accept it and move on.
TLDR Imagine being a mid 30 yo man using meme image macro on this site lol how sad. Plus all of your posts are hidden nobody is gonna see them.
Banters over, real talk, simple theory: asker is one of the short girls who wanted to date tall guys (before tall guys in this question started shitting on her) 😂😂😂. Prove me wrong!
Also I'm 189 cm, preference for height is fine with me, but asker disliked comments from tall guys shitting on short girls and liked comments shitting on short guys, now that I dislike. I generally dislike toxic people, especially toxic and old incels.
Also don't try to @ me I modified a setting when I made this account so that only people with average IQ or above can @ my name sorry no blocking happened
lmao @ trying to use image macros outside of image boards, keep trying. I actually know many mentally disabled internet warriors on certain site that keep spamming images when they can't articulate thought into words, but even they would laugh at you for being mid 30s and still do this. Also My Theory Stand Corrected. Good day :)
@betaTester 189 cm... you're head can't even fill in a girls hat.. xD.. stop lion little fella, all this overcompensating is really unnecessary.. relax little guy
lol talk about hypocrisy and bitterness, I can see Asker literally insulted people for their genetic disadvantage, calling them short men with short penises, while she's basically the female equivalence of genetic rejects herself which she admitted in other posts 😂. "Why are short men so offended" 😂😂
I agree with you that people are allowed to be attracted to who they want to be.
HOWEVER... to answer your question. How would you feel if you had a quality you couldn't change and 99.9% of the opposite sex ruled you out because of it?
At our core, humans are animals and animals focus on two things... eating. and reproducing. In the REAL animal world, all traits that didn't secure a mate would have died out a long time ago so in theory, all people would be attractive enough to secure a mate. All men would be big and tall and strong enough to be a real force and all women would have birthing hips and big eyes and the perfect hourglass shape. But we're humans with our advanced society and shifting values.
It's no longer about your ability to physically survive the elements or clashes with others or defend a family. It's about your ability to provide for the family in addition to being attractive. This new value on money has shifted what traits survive to the next generation.
So I imagine the short guys are over here craving genuine affection from females, but, for a lot of females, they feel the only thing they can offer is financial security. Which is important, but the order of traits you can offer influences what potential mates you attract and sometimes the mates you attract aren't the ones you want.
This is evolution at work, and unfortunately it is working against short guys. You are right that people (in this case girls) can’t help to whom they’re sexually attracted. It is also true that physical attraction is just as important as personality. This is an unfair manifestation of Nature, which results in the complaints of short men. Their reaction is understandable, but if they attack you as a result of that, then this would definitely be wrong.
There are also some short men out there who have established happy relationships with women. So, obviously, they can find someone who will accept their physical characteristics, although she may not be the woman they initially liked. And, that should be accepted as the way human relationships work.
Some short men may also have additional female characteristics, which may result from the same hormonal deficiencies. I was one of those men; only 5'1'' tall without prominent male characteristics. I have transitioned in time to a female, and in addition to the gender more suitable to my nature, I have a far wider range of options for dating. And, I am sorry to say that I am now looking for taller men as a partner, as well. So, I perfectly understand your mindset even though I, once, was a very short man myself.
I just think it's funny because girls seem to constantly complain about how high the standards are that men supposedly set for beauty. I've heard so many complaints at this point about how guys have unreasonable expectations to which women should never have to be held. And yet... height... the epitome of an uncontrollable factor, over-which men clearly have no say, the ULTIMATE unreasonable expectation if you will seems to be held consistently by most women. (At least those who are vocal about it).
I myself don't care if you like how short or tall I am. I just think it's dumb that people so often say "that's just my preference for what I find attractive so you don't get to be offended if I'm not attracted to you. Only to turn around when someone they like DOESN'T find them attractive because they don't meet some physical standard for beauty or attraction." In other words it seems kind of hypocritical and guys get offended because women aren't okay being held to a certain beauty standard themselves, while they are very adamant about HOLDING guys to a certain standard of attraction.
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My uncle is 5’2 and he’s a very respected professor at uni, he’s funny but smart at the same time, and all his students like him. And even some females students had a crush on him, because of his social skills. He’s also adorable with kids, especially with me and my cousins when we were young, and he married a tall attractive woman, who dearly love him for himself. On the other hand i have another uncle who’s tall, handsome and he’s a doctor but his mariage went wrong because he married a gold digger who only spend his money for herself and doesn’t care about him , he’s not a bad guy but he’s very rude and commanding. What’s so funny is that he’s jealous of his short less attractive brother who despite being shorter and making less money married a better looking smart caring woman, and everyone prefer to spend time with him because he know how to make peoples feel at ease plus of having an agréable sense of humour. I remember one day someone spit on his shoulder accidentally because he didn’t saw him, and instead of getting mad my uncle laughed about that and wiped the saliva with an apron, before saying to the guy who was embarrassed that it was okay, he did that with a lot of charisme and a cool clam attitude that made him look very class. It’s probably because of him that I didn’t noticed earlier that being tall is a beauty feature. What I want to say is that some other short men aren’t hated because they are short but because they are bitter and childish. Ofc they aren’t going to attract every women of their dreams and it will be harder for them to succeed, but hard work and a good personality is always rewarded no matter how you look like.
It's not so much the nature of the preference itself but rather the popularity of the preference. Every inch has a noticeable impact on the size of your dating pool, especially online where your height is often displayed in writing.
Of course, many factors under a man's control can increase the size of his dating pool with a bit of effort! However, some short men are salty that they have to work harder to attract the same women that some otherwise equally attractive guy who's taller than them. To most of us, that's just life and applies to countless facets of it, yet so many others seem to have missed the memo! One group I do pity are the men at the very short end of the spectrum, and on some level I believe their insecurity of never finding a mate is justified. I can't even imagine how hard they must have to hustle to achieve any HOPE of making it through the cracks, and that's pretty much only if they're lucky enough to have some sort of HIGHLY marketable talent.
Last thing, here's something men should be grateful for and always keep in the back of their minds for whenever they begin declining into despair: Men have an entire litany of paths to a woman's heart! Suffering severely in a few categories can be redeemed by excelling in JUST ONE of many categories--and it's YOUR CHOICE which one! Meanwhile, women are practically stuck to navigate the 2-dimensional Hot-Crazy Matrix, as illustrated with scholarly rigor in the video linked below!
Thank you for stating this! I would like to add a real life example to the last paragraph because I think it suits better as a continuation.
I know this guy who is short, can't be more than 165cm, yet he never had any trouble attracting girls (in before anyone asks, his face is average looking). Built wise he is an ectomorph, so basically a skinny weakling. He is a bodybuilder now, but before having a shredded physique, he attracted girls by writing poems, which has always been one of his hobbies.
Lmao you don't even want to accept anybodies opinions, you sound exactly like a well hated girl on this site. Maybe you are her miss Anon. But I agree it's the same as when girls get upset that guys like shorter girls, or like girls with bigger boobs and a smaller waist. It's because it's not something they can exactly change, they were born that way so it hurts their feelings when so many people say it's a turn off for them. Don't ask questions, if you're not going to accept other opinions/answers.
Right? She just illogically calls that comparison being off topic when it is clearly a good analogy that may help females better understand that way of thinking. Just bashing everyone who disagrees sounds like some people who have blocked me lol 😂
@morimeme1 No, for that “comparison” I clearly said if you were paying any attention that I’d answer it the exact same way. Your preferences aren’t your fault. It’s not fair to you or the other person to “pretend” to be attracted to them for the sake of their feelings. As I’ve already stated before... “men and women both have their own set of preferences and there is nothing wrong with that.” The question, however, was regarding short men and I don’t see what point you’re trying to prove twisting it to something else when I literally still stand by what I just said?
Well it wasn't meant to somehow make a difference in you point of view, that was to answer the question - you say that you would answer it the same way, great, at least you're not a hypocrite. But the purpose of that is to answer the question by making it more relatable for people who can't understand, you already have your answer so it doesn't make a difference.
She tried to make a point about how short guys shouldn't be offended by women's preference while calling guys who disagree with her "short rejects with short penis" lol Also she thumbs up every post of people shitting on short guys and dislikes every post of people saying anything negative about women's body. That is why she got triggered by your analogy to female's negative traits
“Thumbs up every post” bitch tf? 🤦♀️😂 first off, half the posts I scroll through have 0 thumbs up, second there’s no possible way you would be able to tell that it was me - which FYI it wasn’t. I’m barely reading all these comments as this shit blew up too much. And wtf is a “femcel” now? 😂 you just can’t handle the fact that not everyone is going to agree with you and people have different perspectives. I actually like how @morimeme1 disagrees but understands how we have different perspectives - which by the way if you’re living in the real world you should be used to that instead of being all butt hurt
LOL everyone can see posts which asker liked. There are like two posts I can see at the top that explicitly insult short men, you don't want short men to be offended but you use men's genetic disadvantage as an insult 😂 I even quoted what you wrote, too bad can't delete it now but hey at least you are anonymous. I haven't seen the rest of the posts, but what I saw was clear enough to make a point. I understand your perspective perfectly, you're allowed to have a different opinion and my perspective is that your opinion stems from a lack of social intelligence, don't be offended now. I believe it's either psychopathy or autism (both characterized by a severe lack of empathy like demonstrated here). by the way get used to femcel it's like incel's toxic mentality but for females.
'Cause they're butthurt, and only think preferences are fair, when it doesn't affect them.
Like, yeah; I'm sure that being a short guy sucks, but would you rather get rejected, or be with someone that doesn't find attractive? You could be using the time that you would have wasted, with her, to find someone who does find you attractive.
I think it's because height is outside of a man's control. If no one wants to date you because you're fat that's something you can change through exercise and dieting. However, exercising and dieting won't suddenly add on extra inches to your height.
There is also this perception of short men being less masculine than tall men. Despite what feminism tries to say, a lot of women still value masculinity within men. So, a short guy has to work extra harder than a tall guy to prove to women that he isn't some feminine pansy.
All of these factors make short men feel frustrated and so they take their anger out on women.
@Emily2375 Well you can change it. If you hate being slim start eating more and exercising. If a girl doesn’t want to look ‘ugly’ she can wear makeup to hide her flaws and accentuate her best features.
I'm short AF, like about 5'2 and whilst I don't really care that much, I STRONGLY agree that people are entitled to have preferences, like a massive pet peeve of mine, is when people act as if they're better than someone, act as if they're wrong or try to make others feel bad, simply for having a preference, like everyone's different, get over it.
That being said, it does kind of suck for those that are affected by it, especially as it's not something they can control, so I definitely sympathise with them on that, but that's life and not everyone is considered attractive to everyone, but no one should be made to feel bad about having a taste.
I actually completely agree with everything you said and I'm a short guy. It's just like how women think guys feel entitled to thin attractive women but it's not that we feel entitled, that's just what we find attractive.
So yes, no one is entitled to anyone but we are entitled to be attracted to or not attracted to whom ever we please.
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Just out of blatant curiosity, how tall are you? Or how “short” lmao if that’s more fitting..
Hmm well maybe because it’s something they can’t really do anything about... like a fat girl can lose weight but they can’t grow more lol it’s sad because it’s not like they chose to be short, but they shouldn’t be bitter as they too have preferences and there are plenty of women who date guys their own height and such instead of taller... and they too would probably put down a girl for having hairy body or some mother superficial thing.
We all have disadvantages but there will always be people who are attracted to you, you just have to find them... and maybe lower your standards a bit.
This is some self-defeating BS if I ever heard it. I'm about 5'7" (last time I checked at least), and I've never viewed myself as falling short (no pun intended) compared to taller guys. A short guy with strength of character will always outclass a tall guy with no personality or values. And frankly, most "preferences" can be overcome. Many women don't really know what they want until it's right in front of them. Ask any woman what her "list" for ideal man is, and she'll riff off all these qualities that she picked up from some Hollywood movies or whatever. But then if a guy comes along and she has sexual chemistry with him, even though he doesn't fit her "ideal man list", then she's still likely gonna go for it. What else is she gonna do, go home alone and eat microwave noodles for one while watching the shopping channel? :P
P. S. of course I also don't condone men calling women "bitches" or "cunts" on the internet. It's never good to lump an entire gender together under a single pejorative. SOME women are bitches, just as SOME men are assholes. But we should judge that on individual basis.
Because really it's not about sexual attraction, it's some stupid bias in their head. Especially girls who are short and reject guys who are still taller than them but just don't allign with what society deems as tall. Like chill midget, he is tall in comparison to you what else do you want.
That's the point. You get the same or worse reactions regarding weight (a thing you can control), yet so much of society wants it to be acceptable socially to choose based on height (a thing you cannot control). See what I'm getting at?
@Gavyn No. The whole basis of my argument was that people should have the freedom to reject whomever they please if they’re not physically attracted to them. It’s perfectly acceptable and logical. You are making no point whatsoever.
Yes! Weed out the materialistic bitches out there. I do this with my career, always downplay what I do and how much I make.
The best was the gold digger who turned me down because I didn't "make enough", the look on her face when I told her what I really do and that she was now friendzoned was priceless.
@Juxtapose: Why do you think, that I am even slightly interested in those women learning anything?
I honestly don't care. Those type of women would not change their behaviour, if their life depended on it. Its not worth it to try to change their mind, I'd rather spend my time in finding a woman with an open mind.
It's genetics. Short guys can't magic themselves taller and when a woman rejects them because of that it makes them more insecure, causing them to build up a resentment and lash out at women in general. But it's also completely different to look at a woman and a man's preferences, because in western society women have most of the choice when it comes to romance. Usually a man is expected to settle for less, whereas a woman can be as picky as she wants purely because of a man's biological need to produce offspring.
Height is something we cannot control. In general, but not always, women prefer their man to be taller than them. There's nothing wrong with having a preference, but shorter guys will usually blame their height if they struggle with women, even though it's mostly their personality that is to blame. This has been made worse by dating websites, where many women will say "I only date guys over 6 foot." The equivalent is for men to say "I only date women under 160 pounds." The arbitrary cutoff makes it appear that this person only cares about a specific physical trait rather than personality.
There's also the double standard where it's seen as shallow for men to say "I'd rather she not be overweight" but then there's nothing wrong with girls saying "6 foot or taller, no exceptions." I don't associate with the "meninists" as they are just the male version of the radical feminists, but there is no denying in that the double standard exists.
Why are fat women offended that guys would rather date skinnier, healthier people? Guys can't help what they're sexually attracted to, and it just so happens that morbidly-obese women are not one of them.
Before you bitch and moan about it being 'different,' you're right! It IS different. Unlike short men, fat women can control the issue with exercise, a healthy diet, and if necessary a weight loss surgery. However, these days most do nothing to control the issue and even have the audacity to try to force us to find it attractive. If you think short men who complain are unappealing, imagine how unappealing fat, grown-ass women who try to make you think they're 'sexy' and 'beautiful' 'the way they are' despite being the exact opposite and when called out on it they have a tantrum are.
How tall are you and what's your height preference? Yes `no one wants to be rejected on something they can't control` is a good explanation. It answers the why. People are entitled to their choice, and their choice offends other people, thus other people are offended, this is a very common phenomenon. But you seem to want the answer to a different question "is it okay for short men to be offended girls have preference for taller guys?" It's a similar reason why ugly women are very bitter, the first incel was a female who killed herself on television, literally nobody offended her yet she is still offended.
you're head can't even fill in a girls hat.. xD.. stop lion little fella, all this overcompensating is really unnecessary.. relax little guy 
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