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It doesn't matter how tall we are.
When I was 16 I was already 6 feet tall. After a gimnastic performance in my school I was a sweaty mess and in a stupid outfit. Three girls that were there actually asked me to move out of the way because I was blocking their view to another guy. HE WAS SHORTER THAN ALL THREE OF THEM! I was taller than them and they still wanted to see him. He had a lot of style truth be told.
I moved half a inch just to mess with them xD
Anyway it really depends. Girls do go for the short guy sometimes.
I loathe most short guys.
My bestfriend is 5'3" and never once complained about dating. Only short guy I respect
Most other ones just bitch, can't take a joke. Most always feel the need to prove something.
This question reminds me of that bagel guy from long-island.
Because people don't understand, or don't want to admit, that personality doesn't matter INITIALLY. It's all about looks. It's a prerequisite.
Personality only starts to matter later on, after we've already established a sexual desire for a person.
It’s more so about body shaming someone about something they can’t change.
There’s nothing wrong with being a short person make or female. Imply so is what would make a person mad.
It’s not that they get upset about you not being attracted to short men. It’s about trying to normalize not liking short men.
The added judgments in the OP and comments should speak for themselves and answer the question. You just have to wade through the disrespectful and immature people to get your answer.
Actually, unless you're a subhuman animal, you CAN "help" who you're sexually attracted to. However, if you're just a blind, stupid, base beast who can't rise above the lowest and stupidest instincts, then you can't. That being said, maybe women don't WANT to "help" and would PREFER to just be led around blindly by instincts like any old bitch in heat. If that's what floats their boats, It doesn't bother me.
As to why shorties get huffy and grumpy over height preference, it's simple: IT DENIES THEM PUSSY AND THEY CAN'T CHANGE THE ATTRIBUTE! Any man gets grouchy over that.
Well, first of all, I don't call any of those things to any girl, no matter what.
Second, it's different a preference to a red flag.
If it's a preference it's normal, everybody have.
If it's a red flag, then she has superficiality levels very high, and it's time to see if she is narcissistic too.
(one of the most evident things about narcissistic people is their care about image).
So I don't judge for a preference it's like when you talk to a guy and says he prefer blond girls, and after you see him with a brown haired girl and he doesn't mind, because it was a preference.
Problem is when he says blond and doesn't give any chance to any other, just because he likes blond.
(it's indicative of mental problems)
And she has the right to have "preferences" because in second case aren't preferences. And I have the right to search for a healthy relation based on love.
Lol brunette girls never have problems finding dates can't say same about short guy's where i am from most guys love brunette
I'm not talking about a short guy point of view, but why I would stop dating a girl who consider it as a red flag.
If I were a short guy, I would stop going with girls with that line of thinking, and start knowing people with some more perspective.
Believe me when I say there are many forms of pasion and pleasure between a woman and a man where height is not involved at all.
I just find the girls who don’t care. Why should I waste my time on the ones who do?
I don’t get offended. Everyone has their preferences right? I would never date a girl who was overweight. I just can’t do it. So if a woman doesn’t want me for my height, that’s fair but guess what? I can find one who does want me. So it evens out.
Well, would ya please go tell that to your other short buddies so they can follow that same logic? 😭
I can lead them to the water. But I can’t make them drink it 🤷♂️. Just ignore them. Why do you care what short guys think of you if you have no interest in them? Too much stress if you ask me.
I don’t care? But people without common sense just dumbfound me, which leads to this question. Like ya know, sometimes you just sit and wonder why people are as retarded as they are in life.. 🤷♀️
I’ll groan and roll my eyes about it for sure. Especially when I get those people at work. Asking what flavor the vanilla is when the sign is on the machine. Sheesh. Yeah I feel you.
Lmao, so you work at a ice cream store?
Frozen yogurt if you care about the difference. Lol. It’s a nice gig. My last year though. I’m graduating next year and I’ll be a news reporter. Bigger and better things 😴
Nice 👍
Good luck in your quest in winning Lord Farquaad’s hand in marriage 🙏
Had to google who that was. He looks like a midget? Lol?
You’ve never watched Shrek? Guurrrl. We can’t be friends now 😂😂
What made you think we were friends? LOL
What made you think we weren’t friends? LOL
The fact ur short 😂😭😉
You’re probably not even that tall. What’s your height?
5’5 - that’s not bad for a girl lol.
Oh come on. You had me guessing like 5’9. That isn’t tall at all. One of my exes is like 5’11. I’m 5’5. Depending on your body type and charisma I probably wouldn’t even be shook. Although. You seem to have a pretty good sense of humor so it could go either way
Damn 5’11 and you’re only 5’5? I’ve always wondered how people like you guys have sex 😭
I rocked that girl’s world. And then I broke her heart 😪Sex is pretty much the same for all heights when you’re in bed though. I imagine I’d use a little step stool if I wanted to stand lol
because we are limited by nature of our design and means we can't win them, we feel inadequate.
One learns to accept oneself, make best of oneself... and most importantly... accept others as they are. there's great reward in working to win over a woman that doesn't care for me due to heigh, or salary or perception, but win over on some other attribute that she finds value in.
Well, you kind of made a point in that last part. Instead of wasting time trying to attract people who just simply aren’t ever going to be attracted to you, find someone who genuinely IS by lowering your standards etc instead of complaining about things out of everyone’s control.
correct, I just go for ones that fit and I can relate to. Not going to change a physical preference, that was baked in early in life (not that she can't change, she has to want to). It is fun to try to win someone over... like cat trying to catch mouse. I tried that on girl 6" taller and bombed... I had fun and was bumbed for her she shot me down as she was in the dumps after. Girls can be tough, did my best and know how I botched it.
I think what you're seeing is guys who are emotionally not developed, get hit with a lot of rejection, and it stings... frustration... give up.. but the drive is still there. Guys at that age by design are ready to mate and they are being denied or simply clueless and hopeless... it's very painful. Some few guys are skilled and very successful. height is just a small attribute I think. Many girls like tall, but not all and it is just one attribute of male that draws them.
Same reason fat girls get offended for guy's preference for skinny chicks
Probably because women can publicly ask men how tall they are and height shame men for something they have no control over and get patted on the back for being an empowered woman who knows what she wants and doesn't settle blah blah blah. But men can't publicly ask women how much they weigh or fat shame women for something they do have control over without being called a sexist pig that only sees females as objects to please him
You mention all online commenting. The people commenting anything negative, with little to no context, and very sad, lonely, depressed folk. They really shouldn't be in your reference.
I know a ton of short guys, perfectly fine with it, and frankly, just as lucky as any other guy.
Basically: your observation is flawed by looking as a single demographic, that being anonymous folk online, who and sad and lonely enough to post obscene language on... whatever.
I'm not even that tall, but I don't really care. Women want tall guys, fine, some women want guys the same height... fine, so long as they don't complain that I like bigger tits and slimmer bodies with red hair and 10/10 face.
Thing is, both women and men are as shallow as a puddle and if they can't look past that, then they can't look past anything, they'll get what they deserve. People care too much about what other people think, let them suffer, they'll either learn or suffer again.
Chance of you getting what you likes are not much while those girls won't have problem getting a tall guy lol
@Emily2375 Perhaps so, but that's only if it is restricted to 'the woman's only standard is tall guys and nothing else'. That's extremely obvious
Lol you are short yourself probably not that Good looking that 10/ 10. Ginger want a hot guy lol while men don't care about height you would get rejected and stay alone
And shallow men like you deserve getting rejected by hot womens to know their place
@Emily2375 Funny you'd mention that because I thought I made it obvious it was a hypothetical, but I guess I overestimated your intelligence there. That's disappointing in so many levels and in so many ways. I guess that's what I get for entertaining the idea.
Hmm whatever many ugly guy's do it and get rejected by hot girls and then complain that they are incel.
@Emily2375 While the 'hot girls' part is debatable, that's irrelevant. I'm more interested in this 'what ugly guys do' prior to complaining. Can you elaborate on that?
They asked girls way out of their league out lol for example i know this short freckled ugly Ginger dude who asked this hot skinny brunette out she laughed at him
@Emily2375 Well, at least he tried, though should he complain, that's his problem, to be honest.
Well he had no chance with her anyone with eye's could see it that hot brunette only date other hot guys not some ugly short Ginger lol
I'm 6'1 and I'm still a bit annoyed about it.
Men are hated in for having a weight preference:
weight is something you can change
Height is something you can't change no matter what you do.
Plus you exclude a lot of guys from the dating pool if you do this.
Preferences are fine to have but if you don't compromise on one or two of them occasionally that's when it becomes an issue.
Cuz their little hobbit asses thinks they entitled for everything
Fr 😭😂
Fuck the people that's saying that they short af too 😂😂😂 Just put their asses on the child seat of the shopping cart and push them down a hill
You’re cracking me up too much boi lol 😂
As a shorter guy, I haven't said this, I don't think most short guys have. Nevertheless, the vocal minority is always highlighted.
They say it because they're insecure. I'm only 5'7, always been able to find girls. Know a guy that married a gorgeous woman and he's 5'5. Preferences are fine, some dudes are just whiney little babies about their insecurities.
Shorts women get extremely offended too when guys reject them cause they're too short. It's just a complex shorts people have.
And I can definitely understand why a short guys would be offended if a short girl reject him, if the girl is 5'0 then a guys that is 5'7 or 5'8 is definitely going to be tall compared to her so rejecting him cause he's "too short" is quite a bullshit things to do.
Well, sure... some men are a bit hurt by this... the shorter Men. But we MUST respect a Girl for her preferences, She's perfectly allowed to do that! I mean, can Men dish, but not take? For example: I've heard so many Men say things like "Oh, I like big boobs" and "Short Girls are better"... But do they think about how that makes tall Girls, and Small-Breasted Girls feel? I'm sure it hurts very badly!
I just answered this yesterday, the dual question
Why do most shorties (female) prefer men over 6'0" to the point of obsession? ↗
😂😂😂
Because you hurt their pride and that's not a rational thing. Sure you are allowed to date who you want - fortunately - and I'm not defending those that turn to slurs and attacks. Just saying that's why. It hurts their pride and it something they can do NOTHING about so frustration mounts.
For the same reason fat women get mad that men prefer slimmer women. Life is unfair. When one group is marginalized as negative it hurts, it sucks and it’s easy to be bitter about it.
Well, being bitter about it isn’t going to accomplish anything. Just go find someone that’s attracted to you or within your own league.
I say this all the time. Doesn’t make the pain stop for many
Well, dwelling over things you can’t change isn’t going to help either. Pessimistic people get no where in life. Be productive and find something other than your height or that one insecurity to build up your worth.
Fat women can lose weight though…short men can’t get taller, so it’s not the same