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Started dating my friend's brother I met at a wedding. He ended up asking me out and we had an incredible first date. We have so much in common and he clearly was very into me. He ended up spending the night but we just made out and had fun. He's a divorced 32 yr old from the burbs and I'm 29 living in NYC.

He called me every day the past week and chatted and was so excited to see me. He invited me over to his house that he bought with his ex wife and I went since it was on the way to my parents. It wasn't about sex, so that's out of the question. All we did was make out and he knew I wasn't interested in sex too soon.

I was sick that day but didn't want to cancel, and was stressed from work, so when I showed up, I wasn't really feeling well and tried to put on a good face. However, I ended up saying several things to make it seem like I didn't like his suburban lifestyle, and said I felt uncomfortable being in his ex wife's house. He knew I was uncomfortable and so it got very serious rather than fun. BUT, we still ended up having some fun and made out a lot and he was very caring to me not feeling well. He even offered to get me breakfast in bed the next day and drove me an hour because I was running late to meet my family and he felt bad. He was very chatty in the morning and kissy and acted like everything was fine. When I left he said have a nice weekend and talk to you soon and gave me a big hug and kiss.

Later that day I sent him a text thanking him for the ride and saying it was nice to see him and that I forgot my charger at his place. He said he was sorry about the charger and that he would give it to his brother to give to me this week. I said thanks and teasingly asked if that meant I wasn't going to see him again. He didn't respond. The next day I wrote him a note saying I was sorry for not feeling well and ruining the date he planned for us. No response. Is he done and can I do anything? He still seemed to like me when I left him.

My ex of four months and I broke up because he says "he is not happy with himself, so therefore can't make me happy", bullshit excuse of the year. We ran into each other at a party, and he was mad at his friends for inviting me. I was not aware he was going to be there so I can with girl and guy friends. We said Hi to each other after awhile. He avoided me the rest of the night and left shortly after my guy friends arrived. He texted me after several weeks after not speaking, and says that one of my other guy friends, whom he met before, was bragging to him about how he is going to get in my pants. I know he wasn't lying because he quoted an inside joke that my "so-called" friend and I have. I asked him if he really thought that low of me and then I just said, never mind, have a good night. We haven't spoken since. We have ran into each other two more times at our local bar and every time he sees me, he leaves pretty soon. I said hi to him the last time and he said hi back, but that was it, and the next morning he liked all my Facebook pictures. Next thing I know, my friend tells me, he went to my favorite coffee shop, but he doesn't drink coffee. What on earth is he doing?