Search Results: too early for commitment

Love is a Gift From God: An Atheist's Point of View

Those who may have gotten to know me a little bit will know that often times on GaG while engaging with others, I’ll make references to the love life I share with my husband. When we met, I was a flaming atheist and he,...

Ozanne

Editor Age: 51

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A letter (that I will never send) to my guy friend (who was never my friend).

We had become good friends, so I’ll never understand why you wanted to risk ruining our friendship by sleeping with me, if you were only after my body. I’d come to know you through a shared hobby. I wasn’t attracted to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Girl's Behavior

I wouldn't have hurt someone so bad today if I didn't act so selfishly

Today I hurt someone very bad. I can try convincing myself that it was all because my phone went off that this all happened and say that its been such a bad week that I don't know what is happening with my life. But when...

fearful

Xper 6 Age: 35

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The Fun Exotic Chinchilla: How to take care of a Chinchilla

OK there's been a lot about unusual and fun critters on GAG lately and I decided to do a new take and cover another critter which I own 4 of (2 are rescue) and share with you my knowledge and some dos and do not's with...

Kerbie

Xper 7 Age: 41

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Did he really mean it?

Been seeing a guy for a few months. Occasionally spend time at his place met all of his flatmates. He's very respectful to me, caring and nice. We had sex a few times. Three weeks ago, we went to the city to get icecream...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Having ANXIETY, and bad gut feelings about meeting with ex?

My ex got in touch with me last month through facebook, since that time we literally talked 24/7 all day long. I discovered through his behavior in the past that he is a commitment phobe, and I am also one too. This is a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Will I hear from her again?

I really can't belive Im asking this... What has the world come to. So... Met a girl, met up on a Tuesday and had the best first date I've ever had. I thought she kinda felt the same. Said it was very hard for her to...

Clueless04

Xper 4 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

Did my ex blame me to make herself feel not guilty?

The ex broke up with me many months ago (at that point we were together for 2 years). She said it was because I didn't show a commitment to our future together. Part of this was true, when we first went out, I did a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Whyyy am I having such a hard time getting over a guy I've only dated for a few weeks (who is also acting like a jerk now)?

I don't understand what's going on with me. I don't usually fall that easily. Hell, I think I haven't been in love in at least 3 years. I enjoy being single. I am perfectly happy without a guy. At least I thought so until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys who are totally into me at first always pull back as soon as I start liking them?

This has happened to me too many times now to think it's just a coincidence. I go on one or maybe two dates with a guy, and he is already totally into me. Saying things like never met anyone like me, and making plans for...

Jessy12

Xper 5 Age: 44

Is he scared to get hurt, or is he just a jerk? Totally confused girl needs help please?

Hey guys, I don't think I have ever been this confused about a guy (and I've been confused about guys A LOT ;-) ) We are only in the early stages of dating, and the complicated thing is that I am just visiting his town,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Another guy who is sending mixed signals... How do I figure him out? How can I break down his barriers?

Guys, the guy I've been dating for a few weeks is driving me nuts. I just can't figure him out. They say actions speak louder than words, but his actions are kinda speaking two different languages. On one hand, when we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Struggling with commitment issues at age 29?

And so I thought this affected men in general? I have a history of sabotaging relationships before they even had a chance to start... I have also pursued guys that had no interest in me, well simply because it was safe...

Anonymous

(36-45)

OLDER MEN (30-45): Do men imitate the actions of women? & why?

This guy has always had the views of commitment being a good thing. Asking me questions about my love life & telling me I should date. I've told him I have no problem with dating, but I would do it casually, not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Destination wedding in 10 months, been dating for 2. Should I ask him to join me?

We've been together for 2 months, but I feel like this is on track to be long term. We've already made some small commitments to plans in the summer (an obstacle run in July and a houseboating trip in August) and are...

Sara413

Editor Age: 39

I (32) have been dating my bf (34) for a year - when is it too long to "figure" it out?

I (32) have been dating my bf (34) for a year. We spend time together, have met each other's families, travelled and have shared many sweet moments together. He is more of a practical, logical type that has a hard time...

brazen111

Xper 5 Age: 43

Really like a girl, its definitely a forbidden romance but it makes me want her more, what should I do?

Hello all, a little background story on this... I've been seeing this girl just over 3 months now, we live around 150 miles apart and I see her on some weekends. We have been texting a lot at first sending pics to each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she trying to tell me she is no longer interested?

There's this girl that I like, and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. We've hung out and watched a movie together, where we put our arms around each other and we went to lunch the next day (the movie was her idea, and then...

Anonymous

(30-35)