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I was in a class today and I was in a mood. I usually don't tell people I'm in a mood because it almost never happens. Today my mood was coming from being hurt. My best friend had totally ignored me and attempted to tear me down emotionally which I guess she did because I was heartbroken to loose a friend. She was a jerk to me and then decided to slowly take my best guy friend from me. i was hurt and emotionally broken for a while because they would exclude me and talk poorly about me. Today the guy made a joke that was immature and not even the slightest bit funny, boarderline derogatory. Earlier he had totally blown me off and I was mad because he thought he could just come to me whenever he needed me and totally act like I was invisible the rest of the time. So when he made the joke, I said a sarcastic reply that could be considered teasing or turning his own joke on him. He looked at me like he couldn't believe his "friend" would make a remark and he told me "don't be mean (my name)" which had me smile and tell him I wasn't but turn away and roll my eyes because I knew he would forget I existed until the next joke he says or support he may need. I didn't like being used like that and after the hurt I went through when they rudely distanced themselves from me, i subconsciously determined it was okay to be snarky which is not like my usual self at all. I'm usually sarcastic and teasing, but not sassy snarky. Was I wrong to give him a snarky sarcastic reply? It was a little harsh but I was feeling hurt from being ignored and laughed at.