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My guy friend and I message on and off all day, almost every day. He does and says almost every one of the "signs a guy is into you" from the Internet but of course he won't make it easy by just saying, "I want you." He tells me stuff like that he's a nudist and has condoms and lube in his room. He's told me that girls approach him for hookups (and one 3way) but he said no bc he wasn't into any of them. He asks me about stuff I would be into, 3ways, hook ups with friends and period sex are recent examples.

I know he's not trying to use me because he was super excited when I admitted that I like him and he kept telling everyone that I reciprocated! He keeps joking around about me sounding like his gf or that we sound like gf/bf... but that would be ridiculous! ( his words), so I just say OBviously and want to die. I know joking and teasing are signs but it makes me crazy! I just want to scream just tell me what you want!
We've said we love each other ( as friends), he's pecked my cheek, laid his head on me and nuzzled, sits glued to my side, stares into my eyes ( it feels like we're doing it), pats my upper arm, shoulders, lower back and gives me giant hugs from behind. He always tells everyone how awesome I am.

Sooo... I may be crazy but are we just friends? I don't think so but that's what he says. Could he be afraid to make a move on me? I know he respects me and cares about me a lot.

However... I'm not worried about ruining our friendship by adding sex. How can I make that clear without sending him Rihanna lyrics? ;) I don't want to freak him out by letting him know how much I want him. Do guys want to hear that?

Today just to tease him I said I was going to work out, get all sweaty and jump in the pool. His response: yum. That was it. Is that guy talk for let's get naked? He teases me so much that I asked him if he was always sarcastic and he said no. I said good and I'll keep that in mind ;)

What do I do now?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, and during that time, he has suspected me of cheating many, many times, without having just the smallest proof! Many times we've had huge fights about it and he ended up hitting me and trying to force me to "tell the truth". Well I said "I did tell you the truth" but nothing helps. He thinks I've slept with ALL his friends and many other... Without being able to say why, or have evidence. He says " I have a gut feeling and that's enough for me". I happen to be pregnant with his baby ( and of course, he is not sure if it is his either :( ) He went to visit a friend for a couple of weeks ago, and when he got home, we started hanging out and having a great time again, and I hoped the jealousy was gone. Yesterday he opened up his jacket and I saw he had a condom in his jacket ( that he didn't have the last time) and I asked why? He said " it's for my friend". Then he turned around the whole situation, asking my why I had a pack of almost used condoms in my bathroom. I told him " I live with my mum, so I can't really keep track of what she's been doing, and they're not mine " ( I do live with my mum, and those condoms ARE hers, but he will not believe me. ) I told him I haven't slept with other people so there would be no reason to use condoms! He yelled at me on the street and it was really embarrassing and I tried to calm him down a bit. He said " I've slept with three girls while I was away. Because if you're cheating, I'm allowed to, too". I was heartbroken and just sat at the street for 45 min before going home. I don't know what to believe. Should I believe what he said? Or maybe it was just because he was angry? I don't know, but I am very sad about him cheating if it's really true, because even after all that we've been through, I haven't cheated on him. So, what should I do? Believe that he could really cheat on his pregnant girlfriend, or that it was just something he said to make me sad? ( he showed me her phone nr even, just to "prove it" I guess) Late last night I got a text from him, like NOTHING had happened that day, he wrote" hey, there's good TV blablabla do you remember the name of that movie we saw today?" as if I've just forgotten about what he said. don't know what to do right now. Believe him, or? :(

First of all if this is "too much to read" don't bother and move to a shorter question because details need to be provided!

Last year I had somewhat of a wild spurt after ending things with my friends with benefits guy. I didn't want to go without sex so I just moved on to the next, and then next and then next...all of the last three were one night stands unfortunately. I wanted them to be my new fb but it just didn't work out like that and I'm not complaining but the 3rd guy really did me wrong. I admit I made a mistake because at the time he was a co-worker and knew he was a man whore and had even been told he never slept with a girl more than once BUT I did it anyway because I wanted it.

I of course made him use a condom since I knew he was a man whore and while he wasn't huge he wasn't tiny in size. I would say he was around average or just below average because I did feel him and he obviously felt me because it didn't last longer than 5 minutes I'd say. I didn't even fully get off before he did which sucks but that was a while ago and I don't care about that now. We both agreed before we did anything that no one at work should know about it and we wouldn't discuss it.

About a month later at work I was informed that some of the guys were talking about how they'd like to "do me" in front of him and he took it upon himself to tell them that we had sex and it was terrible and basically that "it" was huge and he didn't feel a thing along with some other stuff that was very demeaning to me. (BTW: Most of the people I worked with were men)

Obviously it's not the case because he got off pretty quick and I felt him AND no one has ever complained and I haven't been with a ton of guys BUT why did he do that? Why did he try to make me look so bad in front of people I worked with when he is supposed to be an adult and we agreed that no one should know?! I know that it started when the guys said they'd like to do me but I never did anything bad to him and in the end the truth got stretched even further and when I confronted him about it he denied EVERYTHING!

Guys...please help explain this to me! My lesson has been learned for sure though!