OK so i met this guy he is 34 , I am 30... We were going out the first 3 days and he wanted to have sex with me... But i didn't let him b/c it was too soon for me and i had my period. But I did sleep over his house. Then he went away on business for 5 days... When he returned we went out for icecream, while we driving there he asked me if i like kids and whats my dream etc ect... and i said yes i want many kids and a farm etc ect... So at The icecream shop he said out of the blue " I dont want to have sex with you yet because i need to get used to you. Usually when i have sex i dont want to be around the other person after, and i dont want to do that to you" ... It came up very weird to me... After that we went to my place and got hot and heavy and asked to have sex with me and that he forgot condoms... and i said well i dont have any and it won't happen without, plus you said you dont want to have sex. There he pulled two condoms out of his pocket and said "oh i was lying, I DO have condoms!!!
I asked him since you dont want to have sex like that then "Do you have sex at all? a nd if yes when was the last time?" He answered 2 weeks ago with my friend w/ benefits " :/
he keeps saying. about us becoming a couple/example.."if we become a couple ill move up near your house... etc ect... and he's told me that if we had children they would be so light colored bllonde... random stuff which is a little weird isn't it?