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As a musician, sometimes I get confused about whether I'm attracted to someone romantically/sexually or if they simply inspire me and/or infatuate me musically. It's hard to explain. It's happened to me many times before and now again: I can't stop thinking about my dance acquaintance.

As a dancer, I like to have a good lead, so it's attractive to me when a guy can lead well. And I like it when they're sexy when they dance. But, I don't know if that's an attraction I have toward the person or toward the art of dancing, or, perhaps, both.

It's not like I only fall for musicians. I've fallen for others with other talents and passions.

I like a guy who has a talent/passion and is good at what he does. So maybe I am really falling for this guy. I don't know.

I don't find him particularly attractive and I honestly don't know much about him except that he's a dancer/dance teacher who's good at leading (in dance).

But when he talks to me he always calls me "senorita" with his latin charms and when he texts me I feel butterflies. I love latin music and dance, so I'm thinking maybe that's the only reason... Maybe...

Last night, he, our dance crew and I attended his goodbye party (he's leaving the US), and I just wanted to dance with him the whole time and would feel jealous when he'd dance with all the other girls there.

He's leaving the country, and I've been really upset about it. At first I truly believed it was just because we have good chemistry when we dance and also because I generally get attached to the people in my life, but after last night I'm not sure if that's all it is...

It doesn't help how he told me I looked "amazing" or "sexy" when I sent him videos of us dancing last night.

Tell me this just seems like a musician thing and nothing real.

I always knew my crush and I were different. He's the "cool guy" who never smiles and isn't afraid to express himself (even if it's hurtful). I'm the naturally playful and flirty type. My guy friends always tell me that when they first met me they thought I was cool, cold and distant but now they see how clumsy and flirty I really am.
Today, I've been texting with my crush, and immediately we could see how different we are. In just a day, I've learned: he doesn't like parties (I'm all about the life of the party - probably because I'm a musician), doesn't like celebrating his birthday (I always celebrate my birthday with friends) and that he hates summer (Summer is my favorite season).
The only thing I see that we have in common so far is that we're dog people who care about the environment. Is that enough to have in common with a partner? There aren't any mutual activities we do or hobbies.
He's a PHD in Science and I'm an Ethics undergrad, French minor.
I'm multilungual, he just speaks English.
I'm a Pisces, he's a Taurus.
I spend my free time singing, dancing, going out with friends, shopping, reading, or watching Criminal Minds, Roswell and K-Drama. He spends his free time gardening, tutoring and who knows? Probably watching Nat Geo and Ted Talks with his dog and a few cans of beer.
He's totally a beer person. I'm a cocktail person.
Till today, I didn't really have any doubts about pursuing him because I've been so blinded by him, but now I'm slightly worried that even if we end up together it wouldn't work out because we're so different. I mean, what would we even do together other than have sex? 😏😏
I've never pursued someone who's this different from me.
Should I be worried, or not? Do opposites really attract? Have you ever pursued/dated someone who was really different from you?