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I'm black and I don't agree with dating/marrying outside of your race. I've met a lot of half black kids. They're always confused and don't know what they are. Or they wish they were just white. Not a single half bread I've met is proud of their mix. They only want to be black when it's convenient for them.

Black people don't marry outside their outside race because of love. They marry/breed outside their race because they hate being black. They're in love with what the white man/woman represents. Not the person itself.

I'm not saying that all black people have to think like me and marry their own. Everybody has their own opinion. But when I see most of the black population openly admitting they hate their own, and want anyone none-black that's a serious problem. Have you ever noticed a black man has success and wants a white woman on his elbow?

It's a healthier marriage when you marry someone of your own race. I means who's better for an Indian man than a Indian woman? Who's better for Latino man than a Latina? And all the other races.

U marry outside your race it will eventually be a problem in the marriage. Each individual race have their own struggles, and think they have it the worst. Which makes us ignorant to struggles of other races.

For example, you marry a white and u vent black problems to them. Your white spouse most likely won't understand. You can be Black marry a white. He/she will have white race struggles that bother them and you wouldn't understand.

It's just better in the end to stick with your own. As u can see blacks are about to be extinct soon. I have nothing against people who are mixed race. But I don't wanna live in a world were everybody looks Mexican!

Does this make me racist?

Let suppose you meet a lovely person who came from a culture where people tend to stick/marry within their own race and going outside that they could be killed/disowned or ostracized from their family, community.

You meet a young girl/guy and you both fall for each other. They show interest but sometimes they take days to respond to some text messages and other times they do it right away. This is your first warning sign but you brush it off on them being busy so you don't bring it up.
When you try to hold their hand they pull away and don't like showing any form of affection but when they are by your place or somewhere no one can see it's the opposite. You ask them what's the deal and why they are so withdrawn and they eventual confess.

They tell you that they are scared of who is watching them because they come from a culture where dating outsiders is frowned upon and if her relatives/friends caught her showing affection for you they would be in serious trouble and possibly killed/disowned. They ask if you understand and hope you can still continue seeing them because they like you.

Would you pursue someone knowing that your relationship will always have to be dirty little secret?