Questions: Dating

I always said that I’d be willing to date someone with 1 child as long as that kid was young enough to accept someone coming into their parent’s life but old enough to already be potty-trained.

Last year I was on the verge of dating a guy with a kid, and they both got really attached to me like literally week 1. The child turned out to be bad af and had a habit of wetting the bed. But I still cared for her and her dad. Oddly enough, he and I even had the same birthday. But I only saw us being friends. And then the kid started telling me stuff that made me fear he was abusive like his ex said. Anyways, I had to get away from that.

Now I’m kind of interested in this one guy but I just found out that he has 3 kids, all boys, and they all look old enough to be potty trained lol. I found out about them elsewhere, but he’s yet to mention that he’s even a da. I assume its cause we’re pretty early into getting to know one another and maybe he thinks women will run once they find out. But I don't know we’re getting along pretty well and I’m just wondering if I want to go this route of possibly dating someone with kids, especially with it being 3 kids. If I do this, he’d definitely be the exception to the rule… I just hope there’s no baby mana drama
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If you liked a girl’s personality and got along with her well, but had no physical attraction to her, would you still pursue a romantic relationship with her?

i’ve been seeing a man for about a year now. We hug, hold hands, kiss, even sleep together sometimes (literally sleep, no sex), but he will not be sexually intimate with me.

any time i question him about it, he will get annoyed and shut down. My only theory is that hr does not find me attractive. Because i’m fairly certain he’s been intimate with previous girlfriends. And before we got together, i overheard him make sexual innuendos around guys, so i know he has an interest in sex… just not sex with me.