Jealous sister revealed to fiancee that I used to date black guys and now he upset. Advice?

[Anonymous]

I asked for milk in my coffee and my sister said that she thought i still took my coffee like I used to take my men, black and extra large. Why would she say that? My husband already has issues because his ex cheated with a black guy and confidence issues regarding his size. How does he get over it and accept that I'm with him now?

[texascollegegirl]

Fiancee or husband? I didn't follow. Either way just give him lots of assurance and love and if you do break down and get big dick Blacks again, don't let him find out. Also see if he is turned on by the insecurity. A lot of the smaller dick whites are.

[Asker]

Fiancee soon to be husband

[texascollegegirl]

Maybe your sister knows you well and is trying to send you a message. Probably not the right one. A lot of girls with a taste for BBC think they can give it up forvever, but they can't. The temptation gets the better of them. Your sister said it in front of your fiancee, which isn't right. If she's right, she could have stated her take or clued you in about signals you give off separately without him hearing and getting insecure. Idon't think it's a reason not to get married and definitely not a reason for her to risk busting up your relationship or hurting your fiancee with the knowledge you have a thing for BBC. As for advice, I'd say just go in knowing the temptation might be way stronger than you think and vow to protect him. Maybe get it on the side when you need it. Whay he doesn't know can't hurt him. OTOH maybe your sister has a sense he would be into that so she thought it was okay. I'd say the last thing you should do is think you can go into a marriage giving up BBC forever. Don't feel guilty. It's a natural thing to want the biggest dick when we are horny, and also those cheating impulses come naturally. It's not your fault. Enjoy your sexuality. You don't love him any less if you're honest with yourself and let things happen naturally. You may end up regretting it or resenting him if you don't. And enjoy your wedding guilt free!

[texascollegegirl]

Reason I say all this is I have girlfriends who are really serious and engaged or going to be. Every single time between a Girls Night Out, they are like that's the last time I'm hooking up with a Black guy, but then the GNO comes and they are looking for the biggest dick Black they can get and spending all night with him. I'm just honest with them they are never going to stop. It doesn't need to hurt their relationship - we will run security for them and cover for the deception and help them find these guys. It's best to be truthful with yourself. All the besr.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Your sister did that shit on purpose in my opinion. Everybody knows guys don't like hearing anything about the ex being better in any way.

Now he's probably thinking you're a size queen for the BBC's and that you're settling for him because you got "Blacked" one too many times. And oh dayum... he even has a history of an ex cheating on him for some BBC.

That's an interesting predicament you're in. He'll probably have some questions here and there... don't fuck up and give him more reasons to think bad thoughts when you answer those questions. Just be aware of it. The fear might go away over time.

[Anonymous]

You could explain to him how the g-spot is about an inch in on the anterior wall of the vagina; and that the nerve endings only extend to the first inch or two. Unless he has a micropenis, which only effects less than 1% of men, he should be able to get the job done.

[Asker]

He might actually buy that maybe

[Opinion Owner]

Well it is reality; knowing human anatomy is the key to a happy sex life.

[Juxtapose]

Yep, I can go all the way to the cervix pretty easily and I am a bit above average. I can make women cream on my dick without being some pornstar.

To take big dick that is enormous you actually have to train your body to do that.

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, that’s difficult, we taught to have a size thing, by girls and guys. It’s constantly reinforced in pop culture, even by the President, and is far more sensitive than, for example, breast size. Honestly, counselling if it’s really a problem. Why’s your sister being such a bitch?

[Anonymous]

All you can really do is convince him it's in the past and to not think about it. It will be humiliating for him to think he's licked the same vagina that took BBC or kissed the same mouth that swallowed chocolate loads, but that's the reality and he can either live with it or have to break up with you.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Hmm, try sitting him down and apologizing for what your sister said. Tell him how you feel. That you are going to be loyal to him and ask what you can do to show him. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Well you could probably start by getting rid of your big black dildo. That's probably not helping... him, not you I mean.😆

[Asker]

True I suppose

[Fury_storm]

gross. i would leave you

[slatyb]

Dump his racist ass.