I slept with a black guy when my boyfriend and I were broken up. Now he thinks I am into black guys?

[jaqi1983]

I had a drunken night and made the biggest mistake. I slept with a black guy and now he thinks all black guys are eye *&^%ing me and I am eye *&^%ing them. He think I want a black guy and it is ruining our relationship. What can I do to prove to him I am only into him?

[Anonymous]

i know people will get pissed by this but this is the truth. Most likely his friends no are calling you a n***** digger and ragging on him for still being with you. I AM NOT SAYING THIS IS RIGHT. But a lot of white males think this way and consider white women who f*** black guys sluts and would never want to consider these women to their girlfriends. I know this will piss people off but it is the truth this is how a lot of white males think. is it racist? yes but any white male will tell you a lot of people feel this way.

[Hades]

Woah, fella! You can't say that, it's politically incorrect!

[Opinion Owner]

it is politically incorrect. I like how people downed my comment even though if you have ever seen a question like this asked before people react this way. just cause you don't like the facts doesn't mean their wrong. I'm not saying its right or that's how I think it just how a lot of people think.

[Arianna16]

@anon its because black guys have bigger penises apparently so some white guys are jealous maybe?

[LThunder]

@Arianna16 I could be for many reasons. But's really just xenophobia and social disgust regardless.

[CuriousKurd]

This happens amongst every race unfortunately. Black men shun black women that get with a white guy.

[Annonon]

It is so amazing how much you don't know, and I mean it collectively. Within your comment, every single axiom is incorrect. Has absolutely nothing to do with race, and has everything to do with indoctrination in tribalism pushed by you yourself within your comment. And it also has to do with social distortions and making dumb choices relating to your own identity and being duped by dumb narratives and then making dumb choices based on those stupid narratives. And additionally it has to do with Cornwall England and the toxic culture from there that is still with us now that is being touted as something it is not. It's shit.

[meandude87]

Bro do you think black men would want to think ab their gf’s taking white dick?

[ding-]

This isn't a white guy thing, black men when they find out a black woman is swirling get very much the same way, Asian men same thing, men generally no matter the race is going to give you the side eye if they know you have a mixed dating history, this has not changed, is unlikely to ever change so either throw caution to the wind or make sure whoever you see yourself settling down with is either ok with it or just date that particular race you're attracted to.

[JayCutler]

Lmfao@ "once you go black you never go back" honey the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice is...so what's the problem? you banging a black dude wasn't a mistake and if it was then it would classify as "rape"..sh*t happen. so take this as a lesson learn and move from it. Agreed with Bubbelz..whats wrong with black people?

[AceNCake21]

Man...why is the guy you banged race such a big freaking deal? You guys have way bigger issues than the color of the guy's skin you slept with. What your boyfriend, or whatever he may be to you now, needs to be concerned about is that you can't control yourself when you're drunk and the next time you decide to consume so much alcohol you may sleep with a, OH MY GOD, a Jewish or Latino guy!

What an ignorant couple...

[toulouse]

your problem is you are racist & you are in a relationship with a guy who encourages your racist mentality. your messed up. your failed relationship with a bigot is the least of your problems , imo. I don't know how you can look at what you wrote & not see how crazy you sound.

[mario46]

Why do you think it's someone's problem to be a racist? Explain this.

[Ashley8282]

He's insecure. Period. If he makes this big a deal about it than what else down the road is going to come. There is really nothing to do and it will be very hard to change his mind since only he can do that. Either 1) keep telling him your with him etc etc or 2) leave.

[meandude87]

He’s not insecure. A black man wouldn’t want to imagine his girl taking white dick. You’re delulu and don’t know how men work

[pmunchlife]

@meandude87 wrong. No guy wants to imagine their girl taking dick from ANY man (white, black, brown, etc)!!!

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

You can't prove you are only in to him (your boyfriend). That ship has sailed. Hope you enjoyed that black penus; hope it was worth it. Every white guy you try to romance for the rest of your life will be pissed off about you having sex with that black guy. I don't care how "modern" or "progressive" a white guy claims to be, or how many black friends he has, white guys do NOT like it when a white girl has had a black penus inside her, and the white guys won't want to date you. My black (female) friends say it's the same way if they ever dated a white guy, black guys don't like it one bit.

You can say how things ought to be, but "ought to be" doesn't change how things really are. The old saying about "once you go black, you can't go back" is true. But it's true because the white guys don't want you back, and you are learning that the hard way.

P. S. Being drunk is the world's worst excuse for anything. It's like driving drunk, nobody wants to hear "I was drunk" as an excuse for bad driving. You knew what you were doing -- you wanted that black penus and you got it.

[Blitzkriegbop]

uh, I'm a White guy, & I'll be honest with you: If I had a White wife or girlfriend, I'd want her to have intercourse with a Black man with a huge penis, while I watched! Lots of White guys have this fantasy, so please don't stereotype all of us into one category. Thanks.

[KC-Sunbeam]

It's spelled penis, not penus.

[meandude87]

@Blitzkriegbop that’s your cuck fetish and it’s not common.

[meandude87]

I agree by the way it disgusts us white men and I have no problems with black people. I just don’t want to imagine a girl I was dating taking BBC. Nasty ass

[ding-]

This is not a white man thing, everyone wants to point to white men to blame for everything so keep that in mind, of late they feel under attack constantly from every direction for things they didn't do and have no control over so try be fair about it, this is a man thing in general and it's also a woman thing, women also scrutinize mens dating history and get weird if there is some mixing in there, very few men and women of any race are going to enjoy hearing you've had a mixed dating history, and by the stats women have much more racist dating preference's than men, the studies are out there showing men being more open to interracial dating than women across all races.

[Bubbelz]

Sounds like you're with a prejudiced guy, what's his problem with black people? Ask him in clear words if he trusts you or not. If he does tell him to stop creating a problem based on something that doesn't exist and if he doesn't trust you reconsider your relationship with him.

[meandude87]

No it disgusts white men just like a black man wouldn’t want to think ab her taking white penis. Nothing racist ab it, you’re insane if it doesn’t bother you

[Anonymous]

he will probably never feel the same way about you again. it may be racist, but a lot of nonblack men are not exactly thrilled with the idea of going behind a black man. not only did you sleep with a black man, but you cheated on your boyfriend with him? he may not get over this

[ding-]

I don't know when this was posted but I'd say that relationship is pretty much on the brink of being over if not completely folly, advice for any woman of any race, dating outside your race will exclude you in a huge amount of men's minds when it comes to serious relationships, they will sleep with you for a bit but unless you're super wifey material, you make him laugh, cook great food and are 100% compatible with the guy, the guys will be very hesitant to see you as more than a fling, pc world may have convinced you that this is not the case but it is, it has not changed and is unlikely to ever change so either throw caution to the wind or make peace with the fact.

[Kattrain]

"It's okay, his penis was too big for me anyways!"

ahahahahah

[Jaleel]

haha she's a winner ;D

[RicoSuave]

i think we are all telling you the same thing,

If he can no longer trust you, than he is not

worth trying for. Forget him and get back with

your Black friend lol jk jk

[The_Empty]

Your boyfriend is a jealous, insecure jackass, that's his problem, not yours. Besides, what does he care what you do when you're not together, i. e "broken up", what, would he frak if he found out you dated an Asian guy in high school?

[mario46]

She broke up with him so she can fuck that black dude

[ding-]

You might think otherwise, but as I've said in my comment here, 90% of people of all races are going to think differently about you if they find a mixed dating history, it's not unusual at all, its the norm, not saying its right just that its a fact, and its not just guys either, I've had women have near full mental breakdowns when they find my dating history is mixed, so as I say, throw caution to the wind or stick to the group you think you're most likely to end up marrying or settling down with, those are your options, apart from lying which tends to be a big mess down the track when they find out, and they will someway or another.

[Deft_maiden]

It you were on a brake then it was a fair game. If he can't handle it then it is his problem not yours. Give him a ultimatum to stop whining about it or else.

[mario46]

She broke up with him so she can fuck that black dude.

[Anonymous]

" once you go black you never go back"

Lol sounds like he'is living by it.. Well make it clear to him if he don't believe you forget him

[ding-]

It's more 'once you go, no-one will want you back so stay there', that's what my guy friends say about the topic, no issue with interracial couples but don't think you can wander back easily afterward, its very common in all races to have this attitude.

[xxjcblackeartxx]

This is kind of retardation in writing, who gives a fuck what race this bloke was you had sex with someone else on a break with your BF get over it... You guys deserve each other truly

[mario46]

She broke up with him so she can fuck that black dude

[Msputiton]

Your boyfriend has insecurities and some deep down racism inside him.

[ding-]

You see this is perplexing to me, do you guys not realize how prevalent these views are in all racial groups? If you think this is a bad egg scenario you'd be wrong, its so common that you must view it as the norm, Asian men, white men, black men 90% of them will not be impressed if you swirl, girls don't like it much either but you girls love to pretend online that you're above it all, we know you're not lol

[Anonymous]

just tell him the truth. it will set you free. and did this guy live up to the rumors about black guys?

[meandude87]

You shouldn’t have slept with the black guy. He is right to think that way and you can’t really undo it.

[meandude87]

And I’m sorry but he will never think ab you the same. It’s disgusting to white men to imagine a white girl taking black dick. So if that were my girlfriend I would definitely break up with her and there would be no coming back from that

[Lastemperor_02]

It's your fault, you decided to sleep with a black boy by all normal standards you are tainted

[mario46]

You're not into him. Why don't you find a nice black boy and marry him?

[pmunchlife]

You need to just leave this guy. Honestly, guys don’t forget stuff like this.

[Hades]

Don't sleep with other guys.

[vmw2008]

They were broken up?

[Hades]

Why did they get back together then? Such emotional, greedy, juvenile choices are bound to backfire. Truly confusing stuff.

[mario46]

@vmw2008 She broke up with him so she can fuck that black dude

[tatiiee]

smmfh, wow..