At least he didn't try to have sex with you just for the experience or "date" you but hide you from everyone just because you're black, and then dump you because you're black and his family would never really accept it. That happens so, so much that it makes it hard to trust a white person who is expressing interest, really. It's sad, but race matters to most people regardless of what they say, and you have to be more on your guard when you like someone outside your race, especially when it's a black/white thing.
A lot of people don't get it, but I think being rejected based on race is the worst rejection you could get, lol. Like, you can tell me anything else is wrong with me--too fat, too weird, too introverted, anything--and it'd be better.
It happens, hun. People have certain preferences. That being said, he shouldn't have told you that. It's not as if you can help it. And if you were pretty and sweet, he should have overlooked the fact that you're black. I'm sorry that you had to deal with that.
P. S: There's nothing wrong with being black. :)
Well at least he was honest. You don't need anyone like that in your life anyway. Get up, dust yourself off, and keep moving life. Find someone who will appreciate you for you (but look for people who will fetishize you and try to pass it off as love). I wish you the best.
Wow I'm sorry to hear that. Not dating some based on them being a certain race & getting rejected because of it is really out of line. That dude really screwed things up for the both of you. It's better to find someone else who's more worthy of being boyfriend material & not a fake guy who claims to love you without any proof. I'm black as well & I know what these racial tensions feel like too.
That's how it be.. It's pretty sad that we live in a society where this happens but, yeah.. It's not yo problem it's his.. As long as you know that you are a beautiful "Black" woman.. But, I feel you.. Ion like ish like that either..
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That sucks but guys get rejected all the time so now you know how it is xD. As for the race part usually someone won't reject you just for your race but some people will, I've heard Black girls say they dont date "White boys" so it goes both ways.
you can't change people's mind set am sorry you have to go through that hopefully you'll meet someone who will love you as you are
I'm sorry :/ he has his preferences I guess. At least you dodged a bullet there.
Maybe he has people in his life who are racist, maybe he fears social reproach, maybe he's just not attracted to black girls. We all have our preferences. Rejection comes in all colors, shapes, and sizes.
my dear. I really have no words. sorry. just move on with your life.
I think there is more to this.
I know you are upset and you should be, but ask him for more details. Why would he call you beautiful and sweet, then says he wouldn't date a black girl? There is something he is not telling you.
well fuck him, then. his prejudice is his issue, not yours bb
I'm sorry.
Not everyone will be like that. I'm so white I shake hands with my dad and I'd date a beautiful and sweet black girl in a heartbeat if I were single.
Everyone has there preferences. Anyone has a right to it. Soo being rejected for any reason is better than being cheated on or lied to.
If the can't see past the race thing that's his lost and you can do so much better than him
That sucks, maybe it was a blessing that it ended before it started.
Talk about being a jerk that's not for him to not date you because your black
I wouldn't date someone that is Black either. I don't want to deal with all the racial BS that I would encounter and every time I have a different opinion about some things, I don't want to get accused of being racist.
Now let the down votes and accusations begin. lol
The other and main reason is that I'm just not attracted to people that aren't White or Hispanic. Sorry.
that is rude of him. no one should not be treated differently due to their colour. fish him.
You're better off without him. What a jerk!
Just move on, was he white?
his loss! 🙄 by the way he is an ass!🙄
you deserve better
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