Polls

Like the title said. Can I wear this dress for a first date? I always like to wear dress, i'm very girly. Our first date would be casual, this is a flowy dress. I could be wearing Sandal Heels (types of sandal that still have small heels). What do you guys and girls think? Should i choose another dress option? Please choose in the Poll options, thankyou ;)

Sportsball, sportsball, sportsball, sportsball, sportsball sportsball... what you men see in it, I don't know. [scoffs]

A load of men throwing a bit of leather around a field...[scoffs]

You men, the things you think are "great fun". Like going target shooting, a load of men standing around shooting guns! And motorcycling, a load of men on motorcycles riding up & down the road! And going to bars, a load of men drinking beer and talking nonsense! And stripclubs, a load of men in a stripclub watching some woman who never knew her father with her jiggly bits on display. And fighting, a load of men going around fighting! And so forth.

[scoffs]

So I've asked the men who the most important woman in their lives were and they've Voted their daughter, now I'm asking women the same question... Who the number one Man in your life?

• Your older brother when you guys were kids
• Your husband or Partner
• Your Sons because they're still small and need a nurturing hand.

• You had a loving Older Sister that that helped Raised you.
• You are now married with a loving wife.
• You have Daughters

My younger sister is always texting my mom to help her out with something everyday….. she tells my mom non stop that she’s sick or has sore joints/ body aches…. doesn’t even know how to use a toilet plunger if the water goes too high…my mom goes all the way to my sisters house just to unplug the toilet for her and to help her put stuff in the oven because she claims stuff is too heavy for her to lift! She even asks my mom for groceries then ends up throwing food away in the end or asking my mom to return it to the store…. my mom also takes out her garbage for her and one night at 8pm when my mom was about to go to bed she was asking my mom to go over there to get her a new blowdryer for her hair because she didn’t know how to reset the plug!!!

why does my sister rely on my mom so much? And why can’t she just go see the doctor if she’s so “sick”?

she’s gone for blood work and X-rays and the doctors don’t find anything in her yet she complains a lot about not being “well”.

30F either DA or FA, want to say I’m some kind of avoidant. Based on life experiences, are these pretty tell tale signs I’m probably…well not attractive? I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships.

Last thing I’ll add was being bullied pretty badly as a kid, again I was chubby so I know this played a part. Worse in middle school, I didn’t have to be homeschooled but it still sucked really freaking bad. And in HS but not as extreme as middle school, HS was more mean girls if anything. As an adult at old jobs, I did have confrontation/clashing w/personalities too. And let’s not forget shit bosses. Since I’ve worked remotely for the past few years, I haven’t had drama with coworkers or mgmt. Let’s hope it stays that way, I’ve had to deal with toxic family members too but that’s a thing of the past.

I’M SO CONVINCED THESE THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE