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My mom lately keeps questioning me all the time - where I go, whom I really see, etc... has even gone as far as threatening me to kick me out of the house and to “stay wherever it is that I stay “ when I’m not home...

she passionatley hates my ex boyfriend for no good reason... she thinks the guy abused me which isn’t true just because this other girl messaged her saying bad stuff about the guy which were not true at all... she also went as far as prohibiting me from leaving the house for 2 while months cuz she didn’t want me going to see him

so due to all this I’ve been seeing him in secret and have had no choice but to tell her that I have been seeing an old friend of mine whom she knows from years ago - but I’m really seeing my ex because me and him still love each other...

my mom was the cause of us breaking up - she was saying bad stuff to him that I’m slow and can’t take care of myself and that I can’t handle finances, etc... she was saying things to get him to change mind about me and she caused us to fight and break up at one point...

so what’s my moms problem and why should I do?

So I purchased my condo around a year ago & worked with realtor around my age. She’s maybe a few months older than me, she’s friendly and good at what she does. I shared a few personal things with her, fears when it came to buying my place. She follows me on IG and used to check in during the holidays. She shared a few things with my mom and I, when she worked with me during the buying process, she mentioned she was still renting. Also mentioned that she went through a few tough times personally and how her finances were affected in the process. Mind you, I see her IG and FB, she seems pretty comfortable. During these “financial issues”, she’s been traveling all around the country. Goes on nice vacations and has a lot of friends, mentioned that before she bought a duplex earlier this year, she and her boyfriend rented an apt. The apt was like 2k a month, yes, I get having help with the rent helps but that’s a lot for a person with financial issues. In less than a year from when I bought my place is when she bought her duplex. I’m not hating, I’m just saying, I don’t buy her “struggles” story.

I think she was sharing that story to come across as more relatable & possibly humble. We are the minority (she’s white) but yeah am I just jaded?

My ex boyfriend and I had a few fights and we took a small break and he went out with another woman and I went out with another guy... my mom was restricting me from seeing my ex whom I have 2.5 years of history with and went as far as stopping me from leaving the house just because she hates him - she misunderstands quite a lot and thought he was abusive which wasn’t the case at all... For 2 while months we didn’t see each other and he was begging me to come back to him but my mom wasn’t letting me and she went as far as writing an essay to his parents via text message saying all these bad things about him...

did my mom have the right to do this or is she wrong for interfering in my relationship?