Search Results: confused by ex

Does My Boy Bestfriend like me?

I've known my boy best friend for about 6 years now and on the first year of us being close, i fell for him and he rejected me coldly. After a year of getting some distance he started approaching me and we became friends...

Mhmmmalreadykno

Xper 5 Age: 23

Help! Is my boyfriend acting shady?

My boyfriend is friends with a girl at work. I have never cared that he had female friends because he’s been somewhat honest about it (just didn’t know names for a long time). Recently I found out he’s friends with a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Asked my ex to meet up, he said yes and now no response?

I am the dumpee (F), he’s the dumper. I broke no contact after 3 weeks and asked how he was doing, apologized for not respecting his decision (I begged him to stay), and if we could be friends. He apologized for not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex keep reaching out to me, but he still doesn't want to commit?

A year into the relationship with my now ex, I decided that I wanted to pursue a carreer in Graphic Design. So I had to move back in with my parents and quit my job as I was going to be studying full time again. Even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why doesn’t he want to end things?

He started talking to me at the beginning of the pandemic. Things went really well at first, untill he wanted to be more than friends. I’ve never actually met him, so I said to just stay friends. We fought and the next...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy I am seeing is torn and unsure about what he wants, please help me figure this out?

I have been talking seeing a guy I met online for 6 weeks now. I am in my late 20s and he is in his mid 30s. He knew from the beginning that I was a single mum to a young child and did say that he has never dated a...

alex6

Xper 5 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Ex is confusing me a lot?

Ex messaged me last week as he saw me on a dating app. We started talking and he wanted to see me so I arranged this to be sorted. He kept dodging the question and I got upset and he told me I was pressuring him when that...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

Need help my ex is being a twat Giving me mix signals why ?

I made a mistake I kissed someone else cuz he flirted with my friend he found out we. cut off for 9 months started shagging again for 3 years he ain’t had a girl since me. Then we were being friends. 2 months ago we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

What does my narcissistic ex girlfriend mean by “I don’t care” when I asked her if she would want me to move on?

I’ve recently come out of an on-off relationship with a woman and it’s been a toxic relationship with her constantly expecting so much from me, lying, gaslighting me and being very manipulative and abusive towards me so...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Confused and worried about boyfriend and his friends ex relationship status?

My boyfriend soon 5 months went out to dinner burger, on our fourth month anniversary movie , and rock climbing with his friend ex. He says he is not into her but I am hurt and betrayed. This is wrong on so many levels...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Why would me ex suddenly stop responding after things have seemed to be fine?

We had been together 4 years when I was blindsided by a breakup. We didn’t even have a fight. I didn’t try getting in touch with her, after 3 weeks she texted me to see how I was doing. We visited a bit and she asked...

s10sleeper

Xper 6 Age: 46

So I’m confused does he really just need time or am I another victim?

So my ex texted me this…I’m sorry I’m not trying to lead you on. You deserve way better than me. I know I’m fuckin up but it’s just what I have to do for myself right now. I do love you and always will. I just have to do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, Ex's bahavior after breakup, need advice?

He dumped me 10/1 after 3.5 years, flipped a switch overnight. Said he needed to work on himself and couldnt be in a relationship right now. didn't feel loved etc. He 1st contacted me a week after it happened, was kinda...

SiriusA1V

Xper 4 Age: 45

Is it possible it has nothing to do with my size and he’s just a horrible person?

When we met two and a half years ago I was thin after a while he started to treat me poorly yes I was thin and he was an asshole. I gained a lot of weight then he continued to treat me poorly he once claimed he only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do men act like you are no one to them after the break up?

My ex and I were best friends for 4 years and then were in a relationship for about 4 years afterwards. He decided to initiate the breakup by saying he wanted to get to a better place "financially". I was understanding...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my ex so nervous around me?

My ex and I were in same friend group, we dated for about 3 years. He broke up with me because he was going through some stuff and was "not ready for a relationship" but told me constantly how much he loved me and about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my (possible borderline or narcissistic personality) ex call me?

So I think my ex has either Borderline personality or narcissistic disorder due to his idealization-devalue-discard phase, where he obsessed over me too much too soon then did not like one little thing I did and suddenly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did my (possible borderline or narcisstic disorder) ex call me today after one day no contact?

CaitHarmyy

Xper 2 Age: 30