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I do not date or have sex im not persuing men, i just like thick platform shoes the shoe stays clean bc the sole is thivk, it outs me higher up and just fun the soles also last way longer than flat shoes.

i like long boots with thick heals. not high heels just thick. they can be warm with tights or cool with skirts, cover your leg for bugs but still breathable they go with jeans or dresses skirts or shorts and are very soft and comfortable and slip on easily.

i have them in light grey taupe khaki green and black. I wear them everyday. i was just reading something where a woman was talking about fish net stockings but she wears them with flats or booties so avoids the hooker look you get with long boots... I don't know if she meant fishnet stalkings make things slutty with boots or any boot is slutty?

i usually do not worry about 'whats in;' i juist was shocked to think i can be inadvertently dressing lie a 'slut' its funny bc im a virgin have not even kissed.

by the way i dont believe in calling women slut. im asking if this is how people see it. long boots equal slutty? im not going to change my boots, im just interested to know bc its ridiculous in my opinion

I have a personality disorder which makes me lose my sense of self. Of course I have my own beliefs and everything.. However, I don't particularly know who I am. Which means I can be anything anytime... One day I can wake up and be total selfish mean, dominant bitch. The next day I can be the most submissive innocent woman you'll ever see. Or I can change in seconds. It also depends on who I'm hanging out with. I start dressing or acting like the people I hang out with.

It's tiring me out. There is no cure for it, other than therapy...

I keep pushing men away because I feel like they will see my dark side and stop loving me. What should I do?

Since I don't like makeup and hate dressing like a tramp, it seems that refusing to wear makeup or just wanting dress modest is looked down upon in this society. Everything that is natural for a girl is considered weird, lazy, unkempt, and unhygenic. I don't like changing my hair texture or anything else that changes me. When I go to the mall all natural, just about most of the teens and some younger adults treat me horribly, especially in Forever 21, the cashiers both women and men give me dirty and disgusted looks and refused to look at me. Most of the people in Forever 21 are always rude to me, it doesn't matter what store it is. It also seems racism has not died out. I still continue to see racist comments on the internet and even racist people in person. I went to sprouts and I had on fitness clothes and they weren't trashy, my hair was freshly washed, but I had it twisted and it was very short. I am a very hygienic person and clean, I rarely dress up anywhere, but I see no reason to dress up in regular grocery stores. I passed by this white lady and she clutched her purse when I passed by and she kept moving away from me and then I went near this white person and he quickly got away from me. Even the cashiers at sprouts are rude to me and give me an attitude. I dealt with rude comments online about my appearence and racist comments. I also have acne scars and I feel that's another thing people use against me. Ever since I moved back to California, I have been staring at myself in the mirror all day and everyday and I am obsessing over everything from my skin color, forehead shape, jaw shape, face shape, color of lips, small eyes, and everything else. I wish I never learned racism at such a young age, now I am scared of white people and feel dirty and ugly around them. It also doesn't help what men say about black women. Its very hard for me to continue to wear my natural hair and to not wear makeup with how badly im hurthurtin alll the ignorant commen