Search Results: inappropriate behavior

So especially after the fleeting “honeymoon” period things might start to get a little annoying and people might drift apart. When do you know you’ve had enough of a person assuming they’ve done nothing wrong (directly eg cheating, lying, abusive behavior, inappropriate addiction or any other specific trait that you cannot stand) but you just don’t feel ‘in love’ anymore. Or if you don’t feel ‘in love’ anymore, what do you do to fall in love with the same person again?

A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects, and marked impulsivity beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

(1) frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.

(2) a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation

(3) identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self

(4) impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e. g., spending, sex, Substance Abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.

(5) recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior

(6) affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e. g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days)

(7) chronic feelings of emptiness

(8) inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e. g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights)

(9) transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms

Up to how many of these criteria did you simultaneously meet at any one time? (And by "at one time" I mean a time-period that lasted at least 2 months.)