Search Results: keeping a friendship

Is my friendship toxic or abusive?

My best friend seems to be letting me down. I've always had a doubt but I adore this girl so much. She is there for me sometimes but there is downsides. Every time I have a crush she says that he is awful, I shouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you keep photos of someone you hate?

I broke up my friendship with my college friend of 3 years. It was a messy thing. But she still posts pics that I took of her years ago and she still has our pics. Why is she keeping it when I've deleted them?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How to break up with a suicidal guy you've never met in person without losing the friendship?

So about 8 months ago I met a guy online and we became friends and sexted and stuff. We are long distance so no meet ups in person. He kept asking me out for about 4 months but I kept turning him down. Because long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I caught his location at a hotel and he still lied to me, what would you do?

My long distance boyfriend (we didn’t make our relationship official) was showing at a hotel on his Snapchat location. I asked him what’s up and he lied to me saying he’s at work and disappeared for the rest of the day...

Winterblues

Xper 2 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

Is it worth keeping this friendship or should I cut all contact?

It is like a never ending cycle with this girl. When everything is going good I don’t hear from her. This is when she has a “boyfriend”. Then she breaks up with him and then I’m her best friend. Texting me nonstop about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal to miss her if I see her as an big sister?

So I have a friend who is a singer and I dearly miss her. I have been friends with her for two years. It started out first as an fan type of relationship and it now has evolved into an big sister and little brother type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What I’ve Learned About Relationships

**Disclaimer: this is written from the point of view of a 20 year old, straight woman, whose goal is to be in a healthy, monogamous relationship with a straight man. This will affect the text but the text can apply to...

Lela247

Xper 5 Age: 28

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Confession - How to handle the awkwardness?

I confessed my feelings last night to my ex-coworker/really good friend. For a little backstory, we began working together and our friendship developed naturally over a few months, to the point where we were messaging all...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have any of you successfully stayed friends with a crush or an ex whom you had feelings for?

If the relationship ended were you able to stay friends or if feelings weren't mutual with a crush or friend, how did you move past the romanticizing feelings and were okay speaking. In a situation, it's a long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Keeping long distance contact?

Guys how much do you care to keep in touch with a girl who was a friend of yours for a short period of time and now has moved to another country? If you do keep in touch would you keep initiating the conversation...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Roommate Crush Am I out of the Friend Zone?

K, here’s the deal. I acquired a new roommate 6 months ago, and over time we’ve become really close. We enjoy spending lots of time together, and I am wildly attracted to him, and I’m having the hardest time figuring out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My friend, who I like, drunk kissed me. It's complicated so please read the whole thing. by the way I'm 19. What should I do?

So there is this guy friend of mine. We are in a friendship group so we rarely hang out alone. He really likes this girl and she likes him back but it's been like this for over 2 years now and neither one of them ever...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Sensitive Doesn't Always Mean Weak

你好！ Just a little trigger warning before we start. This may contain something you don't want to hear and this is just based on my own understandings and I back it up with some researches. I'm not shaming anyone but I'm...

Aiko_E_Lara

Master Age: 28

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Please help me, I cannot understand what is going on with my guy friend?

II'll just list the stuff we used to be and how it has become: We used to talk everyday. Text everyday. We know so much about each other it is insane. We have a lot in common. We used to go out seldom (cinema, out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Travel

Seven Misconceptions About California

1. It's Not Just Beaches & Cities I put this one first, as this is by far the most common misconception, and as a geographer, it is one that absolutely drives me nuts. To all those people who think every Californian owns...

ZeussLightningBolt

Editor Age: 34

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When do you get to that point in friendship where it's okay to tell people that you're not fine?

My parents aren't coming to my wedding. I asked my dad what he thought of my wedding dress and all he did was ask about the price. He later said I looked pretty when I started crying. My "friends" aren't keeping in...

CatsCurious

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

Age Does Not Mean Maturity

Let me start by saying , my take about reality has offended quite a few people. And i get this a lot even in real life 'you are only 20 you dont know anything about life'. It isn't a 'who is the most mature one'...

Helloitzapartaih

Xper 4 Age: 28

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I'm baffled, I honestly do not know if she wants me? She's back and forth?

3 months ago I met a woman online and we hit it off hard and heavy right away. After a week or so she pulls back and freaks out. A week later, she's back in, but only for a week or so, and she pulls back and I'm in the...

twotimestwo

Xper 5 Age: 57