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I have known my step dad since 2007 but he officially became my step dad when my mom married him in 2012. He has a daughter that was born in February of 2002. That daughter has always been clingy towards him. The mother cheated on him and has been in a lot of bad relationships around the daughter, went through a mental breakdown and was on drugs. My step dad ended up having full custody and having to care for the daughter by himself in 2005. I was born in December of 1999 so I am still 17. Now my mom and my step dad had a baby boy in 2015 and he is currently 2 1/2 and a pain in the butt to deal with. He has my step dads personality but I think he is a little bit of a monad boy. He does like my step dad but he goes to mom when he's upset. So I guess he would be my step sisters half sibling because they have the same dad. I do feel kinda left out in a way... like I'm the only one with a different last name from all of them. I don't visit my dad either. It feels like they are all a family and I'm left in the shadow and dust staring at them. Anyways, my step dad is kinda a famous singer and recently went on a trip to NYC to do promo and preform a concert for charity. He took his daughter with him, of course but left his son with us. Why does the daughter get to go and miss school? The son should get to go as well. My mom didn't go because she has stuff to do here (we live in LA) and can't leave right now. We also have a nanny. The daughter also got to go to comic con and vid con with my step dad. Hell, sometimes he has promo is Australia or Germany and that bitch gets to go while the rest of us stay here! It's not all the time but it's not unusual if she goes. There have been times where all of us have got to go and kinda made a little trip out of it but that's rare. She's freaking 15, why can't she stay here. She doesn't need daddy, like she's 5! The son should get to spend more time with his father, he's super young. I don't know maybe I'm reading too much into it.

My twin Tazmyn, is the same age as me 18. She loves to give my parents a hard time. She didn't graduate high school and refuses to get a GED. I graduated high school this year. Her grades were always bad. She didn't have many friends. Never was in any clubs or activities. Doesn't drink or do drugs. Literally stays at home and sits on her phone. My mom told her she has until the end of the month to get a job and she doesn't know how she's gonna get there but that's Tazmyn's job to figure out. My mom asked her for 3 months straight everyday if she wAnted to go practice driving and she would say no and lock herself in her room. She always tells my mom that she's an adult and can do whatever she wants and she can't tell her what to do. She also hates being bossed around and never does any chores. She swears at my mom all the time. She screams at my mom and they often get into screaming matches. My mom has told her for months that she has until the beginning of September to have a job or pack her bags. That's the least she could do if she doesn't want to get her GED. She is a smartass to everyone, screams and swears, demands and expects everything to be handed to her on a silver platter. She doesn't believe she has to work because that's what my parents are for and working is for poor people. I work and I drive and I'm going to college in the fall. I've had my license since last year. She has seem therapists and mental psychologists and they don't think she is depressed, they think she needs a reality check and lives in a fantasy world. She is fully capable of getting a job, she refuses to work because it's gross. She refuses to drive because she doesn't want too. She refuses to leave the house because she doesn't want to get dressed and likes being on her phone. She also has anger issues and is destructive. She will not wake up in the morning and if you wake her up she will scream and swear at you and get psychical and slam the door in your face.