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honestly im not against any of you, but these kind of posts always says that the "writer" is always there for him and does everything to help him, etc. but these just look too good to be true.
again, im not against you at all, im just saying that you should look at yourself from his perspective..3
Don't stay with him he's an asshole, and you seem really sweet. You deserve a guy that will treat your right, and obviously this guy will never do it, people like him never changes. Or at least they change over an extremely long period of time and you don't need that much time to be wasted.10
gET OUT if you have been together that long and you're not in a relationship where you're basically growing together and best friends and supporting eachother then get out you're wasting time0
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Re-read what you wrote. Do it again. What would you tell a friend who told you this. Read it again. Honestly, what would you tell her?0
Dump his ass0
Leave dude. Wtf0
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Get out of there, made a mistake thinking he might change. People don't change over 4 months most don't at all it doesn't matter how much you wait. From what you wrote he doesn't want to change, he replaced you and keeps comparing you with that other chick. Remember why you decided to break up in the first place, it wasn't because he came clean in the end or because he stopped being obsessed with being right. He doesn't care about you and that I love you is just a word backed up by... what? Get out its not worth it, none of your tries are worth it.
He eventually did come clean about the talking the other girls part, but only after a lot of pushing from my side, but he suggested (in a very subtle way) that it was all my fault because I was never there for him or listened to him.
Well that is not good, at all. I say dump him. I mean come on xD he likes being right and honestly who doesn't but at least be a man and take responsibility. Tell him that life is not only about himself and blaming others. I don't know I kind of feel bad for you, just get out fast 😂 and he only confessed about the lies bc you kept insisting otherwise it would have been different, I am very sure.
I will, even though its hard. I think I just have to accept the fact that he will never change or love me in the same way I love him. Thanks so much for answering, you really helped!
You're welcome. I know it's hard but it is the right thing for you to do. You can't have a future with a person like that, you know it too but you still wondered what if. Now you know for sure.