Boyfriend comments on other girls and it upsets me. Is this an appropriate behavior?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has several female friends that he hangs out with and I notice he’ll call other women hot sometimes. Today we were walking together and we saw a girl getting out of her car and he said ‘ Latina, oooooo’ in a flirty way. This is just getting me down. Is this an appropriate behaviour?

[coachTanthony]

Sounds like you are dating someone who is disrespectful. I would never do that in front of someone I love and cherrish.

[TacosRAwesome]

Thank you. A grown up agrees with me.

[pinkflamingo92]

My rule has always been I’m not dumb enough to think my significant other doesn’t notice other girls or even comment about them when I’m not around… however we do have a rule when your with me you will be respectful of me… I would just tell him how you feel… I think in front of you shows lack of respect personally

[Brittanyroseee]

My ex would do this and when I would get upset, he would tell me “stop being so sensitive it’s a joke” LOL. Asshole!

[ShyGuy201]

Just try to have a conversation with him about it. Let him know how it makes you feel & why you feel this behavior is inappropriate. If your boyfriend truly cares for you & has any empathy for you I’m sure the behavior will stop.

[nitsuj86]

Not really good. I would just ask him to stop. If he keeps doing it, break up with him or start doing it in front of him to other guys.

[Summeroflove]

Seems too romantic/sexual. I would bring this up to him. And say how you feel this is inappropriate

[Bananas83]

There's a time and place to an extent. It's one thing if you are with thr guys to make a comment or 2 but don't go overboard. Never do in front of your girlfriend as that will make her super uncomfortable and it's disrespectful

[gangster123]

Not appropriate and you must let him know this.. and your choice if you would like to continue relation this way or change or end it

[Sasha0426]

It’s fine to compliment someone. HOWEVER, I think your boyfriend is taking it too far. I believe it’s all about the approach.

[JPresidente]

Very disrespectful to you. He should keep his comments to himself.

[sunflower44]

Nooo tht was so wrong 😵did u tell him how you feel about it?

[nawtee_me]

First of all, a pretty girl doesn’t become ugly just because I am in a relationship. She is still pretty I just won’t go after her.

[yourmancallsme]

No it’s not appropriate
But just to see how he would react do the same

[Kelly6]

Sound like he trusts you more then you trust him.

[Anonymous]

If they don't do it right in your face, they will do it behind your back. It's your choice.

[Guy13]

Well sometimes we speak without thinking.

[Keplerbett]

Doesn't sound like this is a "sometimes" thing. Sounds like it happens a lot.

[Guy13]

@Keplerbett That spoken Truth right there... And inappropriate verse appropriate varies too.

[Crankor]

Sounds like someone who just dates for show

[jimmy2]

That is a problem and most likely to cheat