I breakup with my ex boyfriend who I dated for 8 months. I only have met him 13 times in my life and I was fine with that. We were just busy with our life and I was trusting him. He was really kind and I respected his personality. However, one day I found him commenting on other girl (who looked kind of simillar type to me) with heart emoji. I asked him about it and he told me that it's his old friend, but it just looked like he was flirting with other girls so I left him read. Since then, he told me that recently he feel like he can't make me happy bc he wanna focus on work so he wanna break up with me and just be friends on text. I was so mad and sad that he mentioned that after I asked about the heart emoji but I just answered that we should breakup. However, I told him that I want to see him in the last so we made plans. On the day we were supposed to hanging out he told me that he might be busy at work so he will lmk if he could in the morning but he didn't text me all day and posting some selfies on SNS. I really felt upset that he really lost interest in me and I thought I don't want a person who doesn't care about me in my life so I told him that I can't be friends with him and I removed him from everywhere. Was my decision correct? Do you think he will realize that the thing he lost was really big or he'll just feel I am being petty for getting mad at breaking the promise?
You're allowed to get angry if somebody breaks up with you. You're allowed to feel any emotion you want. It's how you respond that is subject to consideration but blocking somebody is fine. It might be rude but it's not like you vandalized their home or got them fired from their job or thrown in jail. What you did is perfectly acceptable and normal for somebody who is in a bad mood. Especially when you consider the situation.
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Who gives a fuck, he's your ex.
Don't give a crap about him anymore.
Remove or block him if you want, but do it for you.
Stop doing things trying to affect him. He's your ex.
Your decision was correct. You need zero contact. During this period of time without knowing about you, he might realize about what he has lost. But even if he realizes and reaches you out, do you want to be with a person like him? Take your time to think about it
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"I just answered that we should breakup. However, I told him that I want to see him" That means you REALLY don't want to break up with him. You need to be honest with yourself.
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He probably appreciates the fact that he doesn't have to be reminded of you.
Breaking what promise? So basically you broke up because he liked a friend's picture?
who cares, that is the nice part about the prefix ex.
It means you really don't have to care.
just move on.He might be a little sad about losing you, but the reality is that is you were more invested in him than he was in you.
What kind of relationship is it where you only see them 13 times in 8 months? Find somebody close to home and nevermind that long distance crap
Doesn't matter. Stop paying attention to your ex
Yes give him the boot
you have to ask him
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