How many times have you cried after a break up?

[Daniela1982]

Have you ever told them to just go? - maybe get fucked! (Expletives added ). Do you avoid seeing them again?

[molonski2]

I think as life goes on to a certain age , you don't tend to cry in such situation , its no point holding onto something that is obviously not working..

A divorce is highly stressful , but more so for financials , especially if you are the main earner , but in life these things happen , and some relationship is rarely euphoria , its just a picture some try to believe , more likely they don't like the adaptation involved in change.

Its pretty easy to understand its for the best , if its come to this.

[Serkee]

I've only had one breakup, but that was the only girlfriend I've had. We were together for a good bit of time and we lived together for about six months, until she decided to ghost me out of the blue with no warning or explanation. That was about six months ago. I want to cry about it pretty often, it's like there's a huge buildup of pressure in my head and behind my eyes, but I'm never able to even when I try. I feel like it would help me a lot, but I just can't.

[Daniela1982]

Wait, how did she ghost you if you were living together? Explain.

[Serkee]

I came home from work one day with her and my dog gone and a note saying "I love you" stuck onto the fridge. And she wouldn't answer any of my calls or messages. Over the months I got a couple drunk messages from her with a different bad excuse and a bunch of I love yous and I'm sorrys sprinkled in. The first excuse was that she broke her phone when she was leaving for a month-long job training, and the second was that she didn't have any service where she was at. No specifics at all. I might just be blind, but I never saw any signs or red flags to warn me that she might do something like that. I've been trying to get over it and stop thinking about her, but I can never stop wondering what I could have done to drive her away like that. I know logically that what she did was wrong and that I shouldn't feel guilty about it, but those thoughts just never leave my head, and I can't stop hating myself for it.

[Daniela1982]

Some people are just like that. They probably don't know themselves why. "I love you"? Doesn't sound like it to me.

[DishLady]

On and off for a week after my divorce... on and off for a week when I saw the lawyer's fees for the divorce... (I cried way more throughout my marriage, so that wasn't anything.)

[strateguy632]

never that sad. i usualy saw it coming or parted frendly.

[sirderpsalot123]

I've never cried because of a break up. One was a mutual breakup and the other I was just happy to get rid of her.

[exitseven]

I never cried after a break up.

[Likes2drive]

Maybe twice from two different exes

[BLP11520]

Twice but don’t tell anyone 😂

[Ms_Facesitter]

I haven't cried yet!

[Daniela1982]

Drop an anvil on your foot and you will.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Too weak to lift it up :p

[Nice222]

Never it’s just how life is.