Should I be mad if my boyfriend is commenting on other girls posts?

[Anonymous]

I saw that my boyfriend liked this girls video on Instagram of her shaking her a** and commented "damn baby" with some emojis (this comment was posted this week), he has also liked about 50% of her other pictures/videos but hasn't commented. We are in a serious relationship (which he expressed that we are serious) and it does upset me especially because I would never disrespect him and our relationship like that and do such a thing. He told me from the very beginning of our relationship that he has always respected me, although clearly not.
Should I bring it up to him or am I overrreacting?

[unknownforever]

BRING IT UP. I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is NOWHERE NEAR an overreaction. How can someone be fully committed to someone and say they are serious when they have their eyes on someone else? That is truly disgusting on his behalf. And it would be degusting if roles were reversed. Please talk to him about it. Be serious and stern. And if he tries to say things like, "it doesn't mean anything" or "it's not that big of a deal", then tell him it is a big deal. Find a comparison. And considering he is saying he is serious, say something along the lines, "So you say you're serious about us. What if we have daughter one day who is madly in love with her boyfriend, but he has eyes for other women. Would you encourage her to stay with him? Would you say its a serious relationship?" And please remember, if he is not willing to listen and won't change, don't hold back in leaving. Don't give too many chances. There will be a man out there for you that will treat you TEN times better. I know it's hard to believe, but trust me. You don't need someone toxic like that. I am really sorry because it's not fair on you. And it's nothing to do with you. He is in the wrong. But if he saw the relationship more serious, he wouldn't be doing that to you. I am so so sorry. But just remember that you are an amazing person who does deserve to be treated right. So please talk with him, but don't be afraid to walk away.

[Sour-rose]

Concerned, maybe not mad. But hey, if I saw my girl lookin' at dudes how she should be looking at me, I might get a little annoyed.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t have a problem with him looking at girls and videos but the part that’s wrong was when he commented on them. He went out of his way to comment on those photos which I wouldn’t like if my partner were talking to other guys. Let him know you aren’t happy about that, and that isn’t appropriate in a relationship.

[Finchie40]

Yes it’s disrespectful because how would he feel if you were doing that to other guys pictures , You have every right to confront him on it

[TenkRealist]

Yeah you're not overreacting. That's disrespectful.

[Jessicajones4]

Extremely disrespectful liking a picture is one thing commenting is. Another. Tell him how you feel if he doesn’t respect your feelings and change maybe you need to reevaluate things

[Wise4myage]

Tell him to clean up his act or your done. And mean what you say.