Why do my boyfriend and his friend disrespect me? What should I do about this situation? What will help the relationships? When will there see it?

[CarmenHernandez78]

Everyday from Monday through Sunday I'm always with my boyfriend and his friend that tag along with us everyday. One day me and my boyfriend was having a conversation and my boyfriend friend jumped in and put his two sentences into our conversation I said something to his friend about my feelings I said can you do me a favor and not jump in he came out his face my boyfriend friend and he kept saying things that was hurtful to me In front of my boyfriend instead of my boyfriend coming out to his friend he came out to both of us and yell at us in front of everyone. Do you think it's wrong for my boyfriend to do that? One day my boyfriend gave me his phone I mistakenly drop his phone and it's crack on his screen my boyfriend got mad at me and yell at me called me names and came out disrespectful in front of everyone my feelings was hurt. Yestersay my boyfriend gave his phone to his friend and his friend jump his phone and the screen crack my boyfriend didn't get mad he stood quiet and said nothing to him at all. While we was sleeping my boyfriend friend left his phone next to him and the phone was on and not the password someone walk by and was going to take it. Do you think that my boyfriend is wrong? Well I do because he doesn't treat me like a girlfriend the way a female is suppose to be treated. Do you think it right or not? Everyday it happened all over again and again doesn't stop my boyfriend said that it's not important to him. Does that means he doesn't care at all? I need your help what do you think I should do about this? Comment below and tell me what should I do?

[scoutabout22]

Well you asked the question. The reason they're being disrespectful is because if your boyfriend is being disrespectful in front of him that gives Room for him to get to join in. Or he truly doesn't respect you and he says that when he's with his friend and you're not present. Or it comes to the point where you should let him hang with his friends once in a while and you do something with yours you're not attached at the hip don't change and don't lose yourself to please your partner

[CarmenHernandez78]

Yes your right about that but he doesn't want me going anywhere because he thinks I'm going to do something wrong like cheat that the insuring

[scoutabout22]

Another thing I've learned if you don't have trust and respect for each other the give them a wide open opportunity to do anything and everything behind your back if it hurts you or not you could probably do a lot better

[CaffeinatedCactus]

If he is treating you disrespectfully then he truly does not care for you. If you've talked to him and you've told him how his behavior hurts you and he doesn't change, then leave. Because you are wasting your time. His friends treat you badly because your boyfriend does not care to defend you. Simple as that. So my advice is, if he is unwilling to change or doesn't prove it, Leave. You WILL find someone better.

[CarmenHernandez78]

Yup I will

[Skydive19]

Leave him and find someone who’s respectful

[CarmenHernandez78]

Yes everytime I do that he does something other then that he doesn't let me go and that the worst part

[Vesta]

You're with him all the time?

[CarmenHernandez78]

Yes 😑

[Vesta]

You need to give him some alone time yo

[iFarted]

And you're his girlfriend cause?

[CarmenHernandez78]

Yes I'm his girlfriend but who wrong I need a make advice?

[CarmenHernandez78]

Male

[iFarted]

Because theyre young immate and just overall a dick

[CarmenHernandez78]

Yes your right about that

[iFarted]

Immature*

[Anonymous]

Time to move on, you deserve so much better!

[CarmenHernandez78]

I want too but he won't let me I lost a lot of respect for him in the relationship that why I hardly do anything wi6h him no more

[Opinion Owner]

He won't let you? That's not how relationships work, hun, that's how your classify kidnappings. Get a restraining order if you have to but I wouldn't waste another second in the relationship you just described if I were you! All the best!

[Slim57]

Because you let him

[CarmenHernandez78]

How you let anyone to anything I don't I talk back but it start into something bad and dangerous