If your boyfriend flirts with his own girl friends, is it right to be mad?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend has a lot of girl friends he has known... And he's also a flirt by nature, been a flirt even when I first met him and I did like him being that 'sweet' guy, until I realized he also does this to everyone but he choose me as his girlfriend... I guess that's the major difference really that he can be intimate with me and we have the label, but he still is a flirt.

So I looked at his Facebook and read his comments... and I see he made a 'suggestive' comment to his friend (known her longer than he has known me) about being 'naked together'. Is this right? I know it doesn't sound like it (the girl is single I believe... I'm not 100% sure and nor have I met her) but maybe I'm overreacting and shouldn't bring it up because it shows I'm becoming way insecure and untrusting, can't take a joke, too serious, etc. She replied along with his comment and said she'd be OK with the offer.

Should I leave it or bring it up to him? And if so, how should I without being nagging and looking at his every move? lol

[13EA82]

aww hehhe..my man is a flirt too sweety,he even said he's an alpha male...he kids around all but I know for myself that he would do it if he gets the chance..one time I read a txt from his fon,it was his friend joking like 'yoo are you working or ur banging some chicks from craiglist,he replied it "both" with haha and you? the friend said no just stalking around..i know that sounds like a joke for how I know him but it makes us wonder wooh! could be the truth? hehehe but anyway,about your case,he wasn't supposedly be joking like that specially now that he's with you..even though it was a plain joke around that probably he was used to do when he was single but its not appropraite now so he shouldnt be doing that..you are responsible on his behavior that you don't agree.tell him how you feel..like babe I don't like that type of joking around please don't do that anymore,it was ok when you're single its not ok now that ur with me..and if he say you''re selfish I've known them for long before even you,then tell him,you made the choice to be with me exclusively and part of that is considering what I have to say and I will too to you..it was not right behaviour who ever you asked they would tell you the same thing I say..it just needs a good heart to heart talk..

[Asker]

Thanks, I agree!