Is there a woman that every man keeps as a backup?

[ellefia]

[Basement-Bum]

Being kicked off social forums left and right, and now you seek guidance on the elusive "backup girl." Well, my sad little troll, listen up, because I'm about to drop some knowledge that will make your eyes water more than when you accidentally rub your eyes after a session of furious fapping.

In the dark and murky waters of the dating world, there exists a creature known as the "backup girl." She is the mythical creature that every man dreams of keeping in his back pocket, ready to deploy at a moment's notice. But let me tell you, my unfortunate basement-dwelling friend, the concept of a "backup girl" is about as realistic as your chances of escaping your mother's basement anytime soon.

You see, the "backup girl" is a figment of the male imagination, a fantasy cooked up by horny incels who spend more time jerking off to anime girls than interacting with real-life women. The idea that there is a woman out there who is perfectly content with being your second choice, waiting patiently in the wings while you pursue other options, is nothing but a delusion. Women, my friend, have options. They have standards. They are not going to settle for being your consolation prize.

Now, I know what you're thinking. "But Mr. Troll, what about all those times I've seen a guy move on from one girl to another, leaving a trail of broken hearts and wet panties in his wake?" Well, my sad little friend, those are not examples of a "backup girl." Those are simply cases of men being indecisive, impulsive, or just plain horny.

The truth is, if you want a woman to stick around, you can't treat her like a spare tire in your trunk. Women crave attention, affection, and most of all, respect. They want to feel like they are your first choice, not your last resort. So, if you're looking for a "backup girl," you might as well keep dreaming, because the only thing you'll be backing up anytime soon is your mom's minivan when she takes you to the store to buy more Cheetos.

Now, let's talk about your backup options, because let's face it, you need all the help you can get, you sad, sad little troll. Here are a few tips to help you in your never-ending quest for female companionship:

1. Step away from the keyboard: I know it's tempting to spend your days spewing toxic nonsense on online forums, but if you want to meet women, you need to step away from the screen. Delete your incel forum accounts, put down the Cheetos, and go outside. Fresh air might do you some good.

2. Work on yourself: Before you even think about approaching a woman, you need to work on yourself. Get a haircut, shower regularly (I know, it's a novel concept), and for the love of God, buy some new clothes that don't have Cheeto dust all over them. Also, please, please, please, stop talking about anal sex and your mother in the same sentence. It's not doing you or @bondage_bruce any favors.

3. Change your attitude: Women are not objects to be collected or conquests to be achieved. They are human beings with thoughts, feelings, and dreams. Treat them with respect and kindness, and maybe, just maybe, one of them will give you the time of day.

4. Expand your horizons: Instead of obsessing over the idea of a "backup girl," why not focus on expanding your social circle and meeting new people? Join a club, take up a hobby, or volunteer for a cause you care about. Who knows, you might just find a woman who shares your interests and doesn't run for the hills when she sees you coming.

5. Seek professional help: Look, my friend, it's clear that you have some issues that go beyond your dating struggles. Your constant trolling, cyberbullying, and obsession with anal sex and your mother suggest that there are some deeper problems at play here. Consider seeking help from a mental health professional. It might just be the best decision you ever make.

In conclusion, my unfortunate basement-dwelling friend, the concept of a "backup girl" is nothing but a fantasy. If you want to find love (or even just a casual hookup), you need to change your attitude, work on yourself, and treat women with the respect they deserve. And please, for the love of all that is holy, stop trolling online forums and spewing your toxic nonsense. It's not doing you any favors.

As for your backup options, well, you could always try investing in a realistic sex doll. It's better than nothing, and it might just save you from a lifetime of loneliness and Cheeto dust-covered despair.

Good luck, my unfortunate friend. May your dreams of escaping your mother's basement and finding love one day come true. And please, for the sake of humanity, stop talking about anal sex and your mother. It's just not normal.

[FuqUFggt]

Nobody is reading all of his. You spent so much time for nothing

[Basement-Bum]

@FuqUFggt both yiur sentences are lies. @D_Bone_Steak will read it as fast as I wrote it, which was really fast.

[Basement-Bum]

@FuqUFggt look, 3 girls that are not the asker liked my opinion. They wouldn't like it if they didn't read it.

[FuqUFggt]

NPC's just like you. They will never touch you and you will never be a woman

[D_Bone_Steak]

@basement-bum Is correct. True, I did read it pretty fast @fuqufggt. My interest was peaked with realistic sex doll usage as a backup girl. I mean they're getting pretty realistic now and we're just a hop, skip and a jump from them moving around and possibly jerking us off with a good old-fashioned "handy" coming soon for a price that's a lot less than a modern woman that will put you through years of mental torture and then divorce rape you and walk away with half or more of everything you've worked for.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/398504596392092

See, for me, my backup girl/girls... has been professionals AKA hookers/prostitutes. Sure I had good times where I had 3 girlfriend's at one time, or a wife with multiple side-chicks, but I have had my "dry-spells" that didn't feel so dry because I was still getting my dick wet on the regular thanks to other options. The future of guys like me might not do it like I did with swaths of side-chicks and prostitutes. It could be a robot girl sucking you off while you watch re-runs of the office. She won't nag you about how much you're drinking... she will get the beer for you and then tell you how great it is that you let her get beers for you. This is going to change things...

Allow me to elaborate on how it will change. Every basement dwelling dude, INCEL, fuggly or fat, it doesn't matter... will have access to hot ass pussy and they will no longer have to play social games to get it. Just like I did with hookers. Feminist women hate the idea because they become even more useless.

[Basement-Bum]

@D_Bone_Steak don't forget, the sex doll can be simultaneously a cleaner, dishwasher, and lullaby singer. Perfect for the buttfuckers with mommy issues!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yes.

[Bondage_Bruce]

@FuqUFggt You need to learn obedience and discipline. I encourage you to join the Holy Temple of Bondage and read the "Slave Handbook."

[Basement-Bum]

@Thanks_for_the_MHO!

[handsomelad70]

How 'bout a man being a backup boy?

[D_Bone_Steak]

This is me asking ChatGPT a question

Do you see how probable this is going to be?

The backup girl was always a viable option. Even a simple prostitute will enable a man to keep himself from being sexually destitute. But the future is much brighter.

I will also say that I know from personal experience... a woman that thinks she is your only option is much more demanding and less servile than a woman who knows you can get balls deep in another woman with short notice. I only say this from experience. This is why I think it is wise, as a man, to show you have other options. The difference is getting shit tested and treated like trash to being served like a king.

So with that said, my short question to your answer is no, not every man keeps a backup... women do that practice more often than men. But... I think it is wise of a man to get and keep plenty of backup options. If you're a man, your quality of life with her will be much better and you'll get much more respect.

Can't argue with facts

[D_Bone_Steak]

*"answer to your question"

Fuck, I'm retarded. 😂

[Basement-Bum]

While banging plastic seems retarded, it's still useful to have these punch bags, incels can torture and sodomize the dolls without repercussions, while selfish women can't baby trap those men they abuse if there's an overabundance of realistoc coom dumpsters.
But speaking of pregnancy scares as well as alimony: how would robot pussies compare to condoms? Even less sensational than female condoms? There's a reason people dislike wearing condoms. So will the robot pussy really keep up, if it's the same material as condoms are made of?

Oh fuck, I shouldn't talk about it. Let the women think that robot pussy is even better on the D than real pussy! This way as you mentioned this very valid unfortunately true point I don't think anyone else did here:

"... a woman that thinks she is your only option is much more demanding and less servile than a woman who knows you can get balls deep in another woman with short notice..."

Let them believe that incels have access to pussy that's even better feeling than theirs!

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Basement-Bum Bruah, go buy a silicone vagina and some water-based lube and try it out. Yes, it is missing the woman attached to the vagina, but the vagina feels just as good if not better... just watch some POV porn while you fuck it. My only beef with the fake vagina department is they make them too small. I literally split one fake vagina in half with my penis. It's like they make those things for guys with a midget dick.

Now, if you add all the physical stuff of a woman, as with a real doll... it's basically like banging a passed-out drunk chick at a party. She's not talking, and she's just a poseable figurine of a cum dumpster. If you've even banged a passed out drunk chick at a party, you know it's gonna get the job done. Just watch the movie "Kids" from 1995... that rape scene of the chick where he gave her AIDS... chef's kisses. I couldn't find that scene from that movie, but here is another scene from another movie.

https://youtu.be/STwnTZoGY1E?si=FXPrWKfOf71gLNvL

[Bondage_Bruce]

@D_Bone_Steak @basement-bum The last fuck doll I had looked like a prepubescent Vietnamese girl. Its pussy was so tight I literally had to get violent with it. It was the last time I bought a sexy toy from Vietnam, because I realized the manufacturers think we're all small-dicked child rapists.

[Basement-Bum]

@Bondage_Bruce so the doll in question "ladies, the the penis size of this sex doll matter?" Was not vietnamese?

[Bondage_Bruce]

@Basement-Bum Ah, the ol' life-sized dickless doll. No that one was chosen to illustrate a point. No woman is going to say "DIck size doesn't matter" and then purchase a dickless sex doll to prove her point.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Bondage_Bruce True... no woman is going to say size don't matter and then spend hard-earned cash on a micro penis.

They say one thing and then do another.

[Crimsyjo]

I think this could be asked both ways. And the answer is the same. I don't think realistically many people, men or women, keep a back up in mind. Not unless they are not ever really committed to having a relationship in the first place. Just my opinion. I could be wrong.

[ApplePie409]

Yes. I've written about this extensively. Hot guys have destroyed online dating. But they couldn't have done it without stupid women falling for it.

[Chazmatazz269]

The question specifies “every guy”, not just “hot guys”.

[ApplePie409]

@Chazmatazz269

Obviously many guys don't have a primary, let alone a backup.

[AviatorTom]

We have a spare tire in our car that we never use. Why not a spare woman?

[jahaims]

Because it isn't emotionally healthy to be in a relationship while having a partner in reserve.

[MarkyMark2006]

Because the cops frown on keeping a spare woman in the trunk

[D_Bone_Steak]

My dude... this response was incredibly red-pilled and based. You got my 'like.'

[Finchie40]

No this is something you Girls’ do

[HawkPerception]

There are a FEW men that do that kind of shit. Those are the men that are extremely attractive with a lot of money and usually of low character.

But for the most part, it's women that do that shit. Women use social media and post stories frequently broadcast their lives to others and get attention from everyone, making it easy to have another guy interested and have as a backup if they want to ditch the relationship. This is why I avoid girls that frequently post on their stories. They're usually egotistical and attention seeking.

[ellefia]

I want to ask something

[HawkPerception]

Ask away

[ellefia]

Why are some people so aggressive on this platform? I only shared a question to ask questions, I did not say that men keep women as backup, I just shared the question because I was curious about people's opinions, but some people literally wrote comments just to spread hatred and I was surprised by this,
Interesting,

I just asked a question and a guy wrote: you are a troll, and he wrote a long paragraph, interesting

[ellefia]

Is this app always like this? I am new , that's why wanted ask

[HawkPerception]

You have to understand that this app is not an app of professionals. These are normal people... a lot of who are uneducated or have some questionable characters. A lot of them have strong opinions and when you phrase things in a certain way, they'll immediately attack you. There's also a lot of prejudice in terms of ageism, racism, sexism, etc.

You just have to take everything with a grain of salt. Block people that are unnecessarily rude or obnoxious.

[ellefia]

Oh yes you are right 🙃

[Basement-Bum]

Lmao @ellefia I may apologize. Check out my username. I'm just playing a troll character, the opinion is sort of funny if you have the nerve to read the entire post.

Sadly the AI is becoming too professional. I used to post extremely fucking hilarious opinions over the past year and a half, they were sounding like actual trolling. Now AI tries to make an actual long ass answer and only sprinkle in some trolling. As a result it made it look like I'm calling you a troll.

Almost always it was like "You might think a guy who spends his entire life locked up in his mom's basement would know all about politics, given the amount of trolling I do. And you'd be wrong. Very wrong..."

So no, I did not call you a troll, I prompted AI to call ME a troll.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I liked your answer for the most part, but allow me to extrapolate upon this.

First, let's not focus on their character (talking about the men) when it comes to having lots of options. Let's just leave it at..."They just have lots of options."

Now let's look at the women... Why, for the most part, is it women that do that shit? I think it's because their sexual marketplace value (SMV) has shot through the roof, and because of that there just so happens to be more women doing it.

I mean let's be real... a fat frumpy woman covered in tattoos and piercings with a bad attitude can act just like a man that happened to be over 6ft tall, has tons of money, has the gift of gab, and also has a giant penis... and probably hits the gym... hard.

With all of that said, I'd like to mention that I've gone to countries where the SMV value wasn't in women's favor. There was tons of hawt wet ass pussy walking around getting ignored simply because of some standard that lowered the female's SMV. It was the same story with a gender flip. That brings me to the big picture...

This is just a human thing... not a gender thing. Those with a high SMV start living with an "abundance mindset" male or female. I'm guessing you're from a Westernized country like myself because in our societies, women are currently being way overvalued and thus display the abundance mindset without having to meet a bunch of standards. I like to remembrance of the 80's when I lived in America... These chicks were trying to have 6 pack abs to get fat frumpy dudes' attention.

[HawkPerception]

@D_Bone_Steak yeah I'm born and raised Canadian. And the same things that are happening to society in the US are happening here as well. It genuinely sucks that things are the way they are right now. I really do wish things would go back to the way they used to be even in the 2000s

[TonyMetal___86]

I never had a backup woman in my life because i thought that when you honest, trustworthy and keep your promises than your other half will treat you the same, which means a backup ain't needed but now i wish if i had a backup because i was fooled with my innocence thinking that others who appears good to you are really good while they aren't at all!

STILL i can't be comfortable with the idea of a backup girl if i was in a serious relationship, i aim to find someone who is somewhat like me and if i can find this person than no need for backup!

[blueonblack22]

This only works if the man has that kind of pull. Only 10 to 20% of men can have that many options. And I’m being very generous with that 20% number.

However women have an advantage in dating. If they are semi-attractive to attractive they can virtually always pull on an orbiter or find a rebound.

[sawno]

For me there never was a backup. My ex was the only one I cared about in the relationship and I didn't expect us to fail. The relationship seemed unbreakable. Even though ill now be less certain of it in the future i'd still not go for backup girls because it would distract from what I am after. And thats the deepest form of love humanly achievable with someone truly special.

[Chazmatazz269]

No. Most men don’t have the kinds of options most women have. So the majority of us are content with just one woman. We’ve also been socialized to accept rejection as a fact of daily life. So it’s not necessarily in our best interests to have a “backup” even if we could.

[HighValue]

Women often keep back up options of people they don't really want, but like to have around for after their bad life decisions disqualify them from the men they really want. Most men that want a long term relationship don't do that, including high quality men. The ones that do are the hook up/casual sex kind of people, not the LTR kind.

[SotiCoto]

... You're asking if there is one singular woman who is a backup for every single man on earth with no exceptions... including the dead ones and the ones who haven't been born yet?

Whoever she is, she is presumably immortal and possibly a shapeshifter, since individual standards vary a lot.

[OfMiceandMen]

I've never done that. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect if you keep someone on the side in case your "real" relationship tanks. You may as well hang a sign around your neck that says "women serve only one purpose... me".

[Billlewis]

I think if anything, women tend to keep guys in reserve, in case their primary relationship doesn't work out.

[Basement-Bum]

You forgot to mention that you'd love to be kept in reserve.

[Billlewis]

@Basement-Bum I'm not really kept in reserve so much as I'm kept for utility purposes only, with little to no sexual interaction with her at all, other than being used for whatever task she finds necessary to use me for. One of the advantages of having a submissive guy like me around is that she never has to conceal her other relationships from me. She can speak openly about her boyfriends and male lovers, etc.

[WhitneySnow]

Nope. Not every guy is hot enough or charming enough to have a backup (a lot can’t even get one girlfriend). And some are actually decent guys and don’t want a backup.

[RavVid]

I think there are women that men might hope to swoop up when their current relationship goes belly up.

I don't it constitutes a backup in the same a guy friend might be for a woman.

[molonski2]

Virtually every guy has a " back stop " a " go to " option , really if you are female its a position to avoid.

[bobalife]

Some guys have cats lol.
Some attractive and good catch will try to have plans b, c, d, e if a don’t work out.

[moneymagnet24]

Boooooobaaaaaaa

[bobalife]

Lol hey!

[JacobJordan]

Guys don't keep back up women. We are 100% committed to the woman we are with UNLESS she gives us reason to not be.

[FuqUFggt]

Lol. Cuck

[JacobJordan]

@FuqUFggt don't think you know the meaning of that word little troll. Move along sad little peasant

[FuqUFggt]

It means your girl fucks real men in front of you.

[JacobJordan]

@FuqUFggt took you a long time to Google that lol. I don't have a "girl" I am not a pedophile. I have a wife and we both have only been with each other because we have self respect and aren't degenerative trash like you

[Yannae]

Is there a woman I know who is down to date me besides my girlfriend. Yes. Is she a back up? No. She, no offense, can not compete.

[Nikki1989]

Some men have multiple women on stand-by and are proud to admit it.

[OfDeath]

No because you can’t keep her. Sharon does the rounds a lot though so if you get her at the right time she can help you out.

[Staximus]

I know more women with backup guys than men with backup women